It is so hard to trust someone once they have cheated, or lied. I mean how do u know they won't do it again...cause they said they won't like they did the first time? If u don't feel like u can trust her, move on
before we quickly say... just drop her.... we're not looking at the whole situation.... okay... first off, we are all not perfect... we will make mistakes... and maybe it was a mistake... should she have cheated, hell naw, i'm not condoning it one bit... but if you knew you had a feeling that she would do it again, you shouldn't have got w/ her... that's where you messed up, and yes you deserve the hurt you're feeling right now.... the thing here is... just b/c she cheated doesn't mean you do it back... two wrongs don't make a right, but hey... if y'all both decide to do it... y'all might as well just wait for the right time to hook back up.... seems like y'all are made for each other.... :arrow:
It's Kool™ wrote: TSUNATIBOI wrote: I want to be with her so bad but I know the time is not right. Should I chill out and wait to see what will happen lata on down the road or move on with my life?
Also...since I've quoted this...
This is what you REALLY need to do. Chill out and wait awhile. If ya'll get back together, get Sherlock Holmes on her ****. Start picking up on physical evidence of ANYTHING that leads you to believe she's going against your wishes behind your back. Since she wont tell you the truth, you gotta found out on your own...or with a little help.
Now, I'm not saying stalk the girl...but dont just let the stuff happen without finding out the truth. But be REAL careful. There's a thin line between investigating and stalking.
Coming over unannounced = investigating.
Telling her you're out of town...then hiding in bushes close to her crib = Stalking.
****. I am sorry this cracking me up over here. :lol: