I have a question to teh men of this board
When it comes to your girlfriend or just someone u really like, are u the type that spends money on them. Now I dont mean a dinner here and there I mean paying for hair, nails, small shoppin sprees, and imaybe even an allowance. If you dont do it , would you if you could afford or do u abosoluetly no spend money on a female like that ok....... go 8)
Women that I deal with go through stages.
In that "getting to know you" stage, I only spend money on things that we can both do and enjoy with one another, such as, Dinners, Movies, BlockBuster Nights, Weekend Getaways.
Nothing Material.
In that "new relationship" stage I will spend money to get things done for her, with or without me, such as hair, nails, pedicure, massage, day of beauty and pampering.
Still nothing material.
In a deep relationship I'll give her money or buy material things she can enjoy.
Both my money and my time are investments.
The more money I am investing in her, the more valuable my time with her should feel to me.
Women that I deal with go through stages.
In that "getting to know you" stage, I only spend money on things that we can both do and enjoy with one another, such as, Dinners, Movies, BlockBuster Nights, Weekend Getaways.
Nothing Material.
In that "new relationship" stage I will spend money to get things done for her, with or without me, such as hair, nails, pedicure, massage, day of beauty and pampering.
Still nothing material.
In a deep relationship I'll give her money or buy material things she can enjoy.
Both my money and my time are investments.
The more money I am investing in her, the more valuable my time with her should feel to me.
Tru. 8)
Da_Rodfather wrote:
When did it become my responsibility to pay for her hair, nails, and shopping sprees? Is she payin for me to get my haircut or my new Js?
You didnt read what she said. She didnt say its your responsibility, but just something you are willing and most importantly WANT to do for the female you are with that you truly care about.
And to answer your question, if Im with a dude Im really feeling and we been datin for awhile, and I know he not the type to try to use me or my money...then no I wouldnt have a problem spending loot on him. Lets say I had a good job where I always had money in my pocket just to spend. I wouldnt mind giving him money every now and then so he could pay for a fresh cut, or buy him the newest Jordans...ASSUMING I got money like that. Its a give and take in my opinion.
Thank you Lady J *Myranda daps up Lady J* :lol:
Thats what Im talking about......being with someone who u care about and showing them that you care with lil acts of affections. When I was in a relationship I didnt mind spending here and there but it was equal. Now if its just one sided then thats a no-no
Thank you Lady J *Myranda daps up Lady J* :lol:
Thats what Im talking about......being with someone who u care about and showing them that you care with lil acts of affections. When I was in a relationship I didnt mind spending here and there but it was equal. Now if its just one sided then thats a no-no
yeah, u have to limit this question to people who have been in those types of relationships!
Thank you Lady J *Myranda daps up Lady J* :lol:
Thats what Im talking about......being with someone who u care about and showing them that you care with lil acts of affections. When I was in a relationship I didnt mind spending here and there but it was equal. Now if its just one sided then thats a no-no
lol...Im glad to see someone sees eye to eye with me.
When it comes to your girlfriend or just someone u really like, are u the type that spends money on them. Now I dont mean a dinner here and there I mean paying for hair, nails, small shoppin sprees, and imaybe even an allowance. If you dont do it , would you if you could afford or do u abosoluetly no spend money on a female like that ok....... go 8)
