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HOW DO U COPE WITH THE PAIN???? Posted on 03-13-2005
BabyTig2005

I just want to know how y'all cope with the pain of a break-up or something very similar. I would have to say that I juss lock myself away and listen to songs that relate my situation (crying it out) until it all goes away, esp. since I don't get the chance to leave the house much. But.....when I do get to leave the house, I stay out as long as possible and have a good tie, trying to forget about it.
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replied on 03-13-2005 04:51PM [Reply]
I usaully take a long (long) walk to clear my mind of everything. I usaully don't cry because I kinda have this fear of appearing weak. But I do try to keep to myself because I don't wanna mess up anyone elses mood..
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IgnoranceIsBliss from Dallas, TX replied on 03-13-2005 05:25PM [Reply]

Pray
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ThatClassyGirl216 replied on 03-14-2005 02:40AM [Reply]
Pray Listen to music throw myself into the many activities I'm usually involved with surround myself with people who like to laugh
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replied on 03-14-2005 03:22AM [Reply]
Like someone said before, I'll go to the gym, run, or I might just go to sleep.
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boygimmedat from South Orange, NJ replied on 03-14-2005 01:23PM [Reply]

put on some damn nina sky and destinys child and turn off the phone and just talk to my friends and go out a hell of a lot more to keep my mind distracted from the break up
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~*Secret*~ replied on 03-14-2005 02:31PM [Reply]
run, write, pray...music or talking to someone i know will make me feel better....usually i just write
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~*Secret*~ replied on 03-14-2005 02:32PM [Reply]
PowerofWoman wrote:
I usaully take a long (long) walk to clear my mind of everything. I usaully don't cry because I kinda have this fear of appearing weak. But I do try to keep to myself because I don't wanna mess up anyone elses mood..
i agree with the crying thing....i cant wont let myself cry in front of ANYONE....if i cry in front of u i must reeeallly be upset
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replied on 03-14-2005 03:08PM [Reply]
Get up on some hoes.... Seriously, as a man its not really expected of us to cry and eat Hagen-Das all day and tell our boys how much we miss her. Nothing soothes the pain of a break up more than ya boy callin' you up and saying, "Hey Dawg, let's go get up on some hoes"
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replied on 03-14-2005 08:03PM [Reply]
Well, I do cry, but I don't let anybody know that I cry. I do it in the comfort of my room, or where nobody is around. I don't like to cry about it, because it makes me feel helpless and weak, but I cry to release my anger. Normally when I cry, I cry outta anger anyways, it's juss away for me to release my anger and stress without beatin' a b*#$% a%^. Tis all.
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