well with me, my wife can do whatever she wants.if she wants to work, go ahead and do it.i plan on marrying a successful woman anyways which will most likely mean she will have a job.but one thing that i dont like is my kids coming home and neither me or my wife are home until 5 or whatever depending on the jobs we have and keep in mind, i still plan on trying to get on the pga tour so....you know what, i dont feel like thinkin about this right now.ill worry aobut it when it happens.im not gettin married anytime soon so.....
See, thats the problem. You are thinking from your point of view and not from anyone elses. It's what will work for BOTH parties, not just you.
couldn't have said it better myself. but i'm interested in seeing what some of these guys will say...
Angie I'm sure you know what I think. I like my women dressed up nice, taken care of my kids, fixin my food, and cleanin da house. If she do so much as bring my house shoes to me late when I get home she will get her allowance docked and lose her tv priviliges (sp?). Women gotta know there roll you know what im sayin. woman.........
I'm playin like crazy lol. I actually agree w/ my bro above me. I have ideas of what I would think would be cool but the decision gotta be made between wife and husband. I would think that anybody I married would have some rela good sense and bein a mother would do the best thing whatever she see it as. I of course will treat that woman like a QUEEN too. I got expectations that she'll treat me like a KING as well.
The way I see it, my children will look up to both their mother and myself. That being the case, I would want the mother of my children to be someone with ambition who is out making a difference in the world, and also striving to better herself and create more opportunities for our family. By the same token, I will hold myself to this same standard.
Do I think professionalism should get in the way of the successful raising of my future children? No. However, I don't feel that it is fair to ask my future wife to put her goals, dreams and career aside to raise my children, because I know that it would be hard for me to do the same.
I think these are things that need to be worked out BEFORE a child comes into the picture, even if that means deciding to hold off on having children until both parties are at a point (emotionally, career-wise) where they can handle the responsibilities that come along with children.
I've been thinking about this for a while myself, and I was trying to figure out what I was going to do. I want to take time and nuture my child, and that's something a daycare or nanny does not offer. However I wouldn't want to put a growing career on hold. So I figured i'd do my career thing first and then have kids. And then after the last one is 3 i'd go back into the work force. It all depends on who my mate is and what happy median we can agree upon.
See, thats the problem. You are thinking from your point of view and not from anyone elses. It's what will work for BOTH parties, not just you.
couldn't have said it better myself. but i'm interested in seeing what some of these guys will say...
Angie I'm sure you know what I think. I like my women dressed up nice, taken care of my kids, fixin my food, and cleanin da house. If she do so much as bring my house shoes to me late when I get home she will get her allowance docked and lose her tv priviliges (sp?). Women gotta know there roll you know what im sayin. woman.........
whoa! i'm glad you are just kidding about that....
whoa! i'm glad you are just kidding about that....
