Qualities of a life long mate
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Started by mythoughtsmyworld
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Apr 2005
Kindness, patience, and understanding...thats all I'm looking for...
I made the decision to get married and now I wish I could take it back. I suggest that before you decide that you love someone enough to get married, that you decide whether you like them enough to put up with moodiness and can continue to consider their feelings in your actions. Also, make sure you define the way you want to be treated from the beginning and don't give an inch in your stance. If you do, you will find yourself miserable far more than the happy, festive day of your wedding. Take a few years to get to know that someone and give yourself a better perspective of what you need from life. Also, take the time to mature and learn what is reality and lose the childhood misconceptions about marriage.
But, back to the topic. I look for:
1. Understanding
2. Trust
3. Friendship
4. Physical appeal that will make me glad to be a man
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Someone who keeps me interested day after day
Someone I can accept at all times (this is who he is and I accept him this way)
Someone I can laugh & talk about anything with
Someone who voices their opinion
Someone who's trustworthy & faithful
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#1 She gotta be faithful
Honest
Sense of Humor
Patient
Decisive
Affectionate
#4
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i agree with what everyone's said thus far...with an emphasis on trust...love...commitment....patience....understanding....RESPECT...and affection....
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=> God must be number one in their life
=> Creative
=> Inspiring
=> Honest
=> Affectionate
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