I made the decision to get married and now I wish I could take it back. I suggest that before you decide that you love someone enough to get married, that you decide whether you like them enough to put up with moodiness and can continue to consider their feelings in your actions. Also, make sure you define the way you want to be treated from the beginning and don't give an inch in your stance. If you do, you will find yourself miserable far more than the happy, festive day of your wedding. Take a few years to get to know that someone and give yourself a better perspective of what you need from life. Also, take the time to mature and learn what is reality and lose the childhood misconceptions about marriage.
But, back to the topic. I look for:
1. Understanding
2. Trust
3. Friendship
4. Physical appeal that will make me glad to be a man
Someone who keeps me interested day after day
Someone I can accept at all times (this is who he is and I accept him this way)
Someone I can laugh & talk about anything with
Someone who voices their opinion
Someone who's trustworthy & faithful
oh yeah, and the concept of family must be very important to him....very important...
it would help if he had a healthy relationship with his parents, particularly his mother (or another positive female role model close to him)....
sometimes, that speaks volumes...
Godfearing
Loving
Faithful
Affection
Compassionate
Giving
Makes me more and more interested everyday
After years of marriage makes me feel like #1 woman by doing things that still give me butterflies and surprising me when he's around
*devotion to God
*devotion to his children
*devotion to me
*inspirational
*supporting
*affectionate
*strong
*intelligent
*FAITHFUL
and
*loving of coarse
