are you gonna beat your kids?
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Started by Hahaha
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May 2005
Hahaha
Greensboro, NC
lol u r never anything less than a riot to me :lol:
demmeri wrote:*smh* as for everything else you said.... I definitely do agree that physical discipline HAS to exist in the home.....not physical abuse....physical discipline.... Because like you said, we've seen what lack thereof....has done for the children of today....not good....not good at all... And particularly for the generations that are yet to be....they gonna be some lil' BAD @$$es (even worse than be4), we all know this.....unless we rear them like most of us were reared.... However... I don't agree with what you said about you being the only disciplinarian.... I've known many people who were disciplined physically by either both parents...or just their mothers....and they ended up coming out just fine.... I can't remember where I heard this....but there was a mother who allowed that to happen in her home....like, the whole time her children were growing up, she always let the father get 'em when he'd get home.....and somewhere along the line, she felt she was no longer respected by the children....'cause they thought they could get away with a whole lot more around mama....and knew BETTER, when it came to daddy..... She felt they didn't have for her that same respect for a parent that a child is supposed to have....that they had for their father... And I'm not havin' that.... Knowing me, it'll probably be hard to physically discipline my children, lol...but....I know you gotta do what you gotta do.....and okay, maybe my husband can be the primary disciplinarian....hmmm, I don't know....but I want to receive the same respect from them as he receives.... and finally, i'm gonna REALLY need for you to STOP BLAMING EVERY DAMN THING ON ****!! i've refrained from saying this, but damn HALF the stuff you say aren't even because of ****...they're because of your little conservative buddies....or both.... you're hilarious....but i dunno if they do something major, stealing, lying, disrepecting me or their mother (stacy dash...or chick that can do a split...or white girl)...they're gonna get it...
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I will reprimand my children based on what theyve done wrong. Not just slappin them for no reason, b/c that has a negative affect on children mentally.
Most kids who get whoopins a lot are the worst. They are sneaky, because they don't want to get caught. My lil cousin gets beat for every lil thing, and now she's a little bully and sneaky as hell.
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oh yeah, and the age i'll stop doing it....will probably be the same age my mom stopped doing it with me & my brother....like 12 or 13.....actually, might've been 11 or 12...
by 13 and 14, i believe you gotta start using alternatives....because i think that is the age when many people (especially guys) begin to equate pain differently from when they were younger....
i've heard a lot of people (mostly guys) say that the last time they got a whoopin', it didn't even hurt....or they were determined not to cry & were successful in it....i'm like wth?! LoL...that was NEVER ME!! lol....
i don't even think that was my brother....
but once your kids get to that point (assuming that's really possible)...it's time to move on....
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cafe-aulait wrote:I will reprimand my children based on what theyve done wrong. Not just slappin them for no reason, b/c that has a negative affect on children mentally. Most kids who get whoopins a lot are the worst. They are sneaky, because they don't want to get caught. My lil cousin gets beat for every lil thing, and now she's a little bully and sneaky as hell.
