I hold grudges. It isn't nothing I try to do but if someone does me wrong or whatnot my human nature says they will do it again and they don't respect u. That's just how it is and I won't feel bad about it
I can't hold grudges for too long. I learned a very important lesson from my cousin...he taught me to never go to bed mad at someone. I've seen too many people go to bed angry at loved ones, only to wake up in the morning and that loved one is no longer with them. So ever since then, I ALWAYS try make amends with people. If they don't accept my apologies, then at least I did my part.
SOMETIMES YOU JUST HAVE TO PUSH YOUR PRIDE ASIDE. thank you. that is all. :arrow:
I know man. It's easier said than done tho. Lord knows I'm trying. My pride is real strong tho.
Amen, Amen......was just about to say the same about myself....
King_J wrote:
I hold grudges. It isn't nothing I try to do but if someone does me wrong or whatnot my human nature says they will do it again and they don't respect u. That's just how it is and I won't feel bad about it
precisely how i am...
i've gotten better, though....
it's just all about being wise about the situations.....like...if you and a friend fell out because you he/she know stole something from your room once, when you left him/her in there while stepping out real quick....you know in the future not to leave him/her around your stuff for too long, if at all....
at least until he/she proves otherwise...
I agree, you shouldn't hold grudges forever...but people just have to learn to be respectful....you can make a mistake one time, but after that, it's no longer a mistake........so it's all about just having faith in that person to get it right the second time, i guess...
but overall, reddbone....i definitely feel what u're saying.....life is definitely waaaaay too short....for ANYthing trivial....so like sed said, definitely gotta work on the whole "pride" thing...
I learned a very important lesson from my cousin...he taught me to never go to bed mad at someone.
yeah, i've heard that quite a few times before....and it's just sooo harrrd!!
but i know that there have been certain people i've held grudges against in the past....and they end up poppin' up in my dern DREAMS until i square things away with them in real life....
most of 'em aren't even in my conscious area....yet they nevertheless manage to appear in the subconscious....which let's me know that maybe, deep down inside.....there is a certain other way i should be going about the situation, lol
but i don't know....anyway...
and i'm really sorry about your friend, reddbone....that is so messed up...and terrible...
I too am SO sorry for your loss. These tragic things happen waaaay too much. We live in the Bay Area, California, where folks get shot and **** for much much less than weed...
My prayers.
You are right. We may know a zillion people but true friends are few in numbers. My son is one of my best best friends. I was VERY very angry with him until I read and then re-read your post. Im mo chill and stop hatin on him cause what bothers me today is really sumthin' silly. You know how mom's can get...
Be strong.
