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What do you think about second chances? Posted on 07-09-2005
Princess LaRonda

Second chances in a relationship..... like what could a person possibly do that you wouldn't allow them a second chance? or...what could a person do in order to get you to give them a second chance?
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aiwifey from East Chicago, IN replied on 07-09-2005 01:51PM [Reply]

If a guy cheated on me, there would be no SECOND CHANCE! :x :x
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Princess LaRonda replied on 07-09-2005 01:54PM [Reply]
aiwifey wrote:
If a guy cheated on me, there would be no SECOND CHANCE! :x :x
lol nobody said anything about cheating lol calm it down I mean relationships in general....if its a boy/girlfriend type thing...or a friendship...relationship between family members and stuff....
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AggieWarrior from Charlotte, NC replied on 07-09-2005 01:55PM [Reply]

since i've been blessed w/ a lot of 2nd chances, i'd give someone else another chance... i'ma forgiving person, but if you blow your 2nd chance, then kiss another chance good bye... the only way i couldn't give a girl a 2nd chance if she cheated on me w/ some dude (or girl even) i was REAL close to... that'd ruin so many things...
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La replied on 07-09-2005 02:01PM [Reply]
Im not in a relationship...but I would give my man a second chance..He had to do something extremely foul for me not to take him back. If he cheated, Id give a him second chance...if he cheated wih a friend...there is definitely no second chance...so in many situations I would prolly give him a second chance. We all human and all make stupid mistakes at one time or another. There may be a time when I need a second chance...thats why I wouldnt trip too much abou it...but im no fool..so dont take my kindnes for granted cause a 3 strike policy will be implemented...Like the saying..goes " do me wrong once shame on you, do me wrong twice shame on me. " So yea thats where I stand
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Lady Invictus replied on 07-10-2005 04:35PM [Reply]
It depends on what happened, especially if we discussed and he knew how I felt about something and he still went out of his way to hurt me directly or indirectly. Or if it's some mess he would have died about if I would have did it. I have been forgiving ...sometimes the good outweighs the bad and your not willing to give it all up for a mistake. But I won't go down that same road again.
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replied on 07-10-2005 04:54PM [Reply]
Princess LaRonda wrote:
Second chances in a relationship..... like what could a person possibly do that you wouldn't allow them a second chance? or...what could a person do in order to get you to give them a second chance?
If she cheated, no second chance. If the relationship "just didn't work out" the first time around, a second chance is a possibility.
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replied on 07-11-2005 02:07AM [Reply]
I couldn't really say unless I was in the situation. I believe that I have a nice amount of tolerance though, and I do give out many second chances to my family especially. But as many as I get, it's deserved.
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M o o N i e from Hartford, CT replied on 07-11-2005 09:47AM [Reply]

i usually try to see how many chances i can get. i got like 27 chances in this one relationship. i think she was just stuck on me. thats my high score for now. i dont have enough time this summer, but when i get back to school imma try to break 30.
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La replied on 07-11-2005 10:33AM [Reply]
KillaTraV wrote:
i usually try to see how many chances i can get. i got like 27 chances in this one relationship. i think she was just stuck on me. thats my high score for now. i dont have enough time this summer, but when i get back to school imma try to break 30.
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