What do you think about second chances?

16 replies · 3054 views · Started by Princess LaRonda · Jul 2005

Second chances in a relationship..... like what could a person possibly do that you wouldn't allow them a second chance? or...what could a person do in order to get you to give them a second chance?

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aiwifey from East Chicago, IN · Jul 2005

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If a guy cheated on me, there would be no SECOND CHANCE! :x :x

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Princess LaRonda · Jul 2005

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aiwifey wrote:
If a guy cheated on me, there would be no SECOND CHANCE! :x :x

lol nobody said anything about cheating lol calm it down I mean relationships in general....if its a boy/girlfriend type thing...or a friendship...relationship between family members and stuff....

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AggieWarrior from Charlotte, NC · Jul 2005

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since i've been blessed w/ a lot of 2nd chances, i'd give someone else another chance... i'ma forgiving person, but if you blow your 2nd chance, then kiss another chance good bye... the only way i couldn't give a girl a 2nd chance if she cheated on me w/ some dude (or girl even) i was REAL close to... that'd ruin so many things...

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La · Jul 2005

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Im not in a relationship...but I would give my man a second chance..He had to do something extremely foul for me not to take him back. If he cheated, Id give a him second chance...if he cheated wih a friend...there is definitely no second chance...so in many situations I would prolly give him a second chance. We all human and all make stupid mistakes at one time or another. There may be a time when I need a second chance...thats why I wouldnt trip too much abou it...but im no fool..so dont take my kindnes for granted cause a 3 strike policy will be implemented...Like the saying..goes " do me wrong once shame on you, do me wrong twice shame on me. " So yea thats where I stand

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Lady Invictus · Jul 2005

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It depends on what happened, especially if we discussed and he knew how I felt about something and he still went out of his way to hurt me directly or indirectly. Or if it's some mess he would have died about if I would have did it. I have been forgiving ...sometimes the good outweighs the bad and your not willing to give it all up for a mistake. But I won't go down that same road again.

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· Jul 2005

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Princess LaRonda wrote:
Second chances in a relationship..... like what could a person possibly do that you wouldn't allow them a second chance? or...what could a person do in order to get you to give them a second chance?

If she cheated, no second chance. If the relationship "just didn't work out" the first time around, a second chance is a possibility.

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· Jul 2005

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I couldn't really say unless I was in the situation. I believe that I have a nice amount of tolerance though, and I do give out many second chances to my family especially. But as many as I get, it's deserved.

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M o o N i e from Hartford, CT · Jul 2005

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i usually try to see how many chances i can get. i got like 27 chances in this one relationship. i think she was just stuck on me. thats my high score for now. i dont have enough time this summer, but when i get back to school imma try to break 30.

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La · Jul 2005

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KillaTraV wrote:
i usually try to see how many chances i can get. i got like 27 chances in this one relationship. i think she was just stuck on me. thats my high score for now. i dont have enough time this summer, but when i get back to school imma try to break 30.

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