For Men and Women Alike!!!!!!!!!!!!
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Started by lili2007
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Mar 2007
lili2007
akron, OH
Why can't men understand that when a woman tells him what she feels she means it? Why can't men understand that when a woman tries to explain something leave your mind open and try to comprehend the situation from her satnd point? Why can't men understand women; point blank?
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lol...I think sometimes, when a lady is trying to talk to a guy....the "its a small world" song goes running through their head....like seriously they don't hear a damn thing ur saying. But that's not with all guys, some of them are actually really easy to talk to.
How can you expect someone to understand you "point blank" if you don't talk to them in such a way? For example, if you were to tell me "I'm feeling you." You'd get a blank stare. Why? Chances are, your hands aren't on me. If they are, and you feel the need to tell me "I'm feeling you", then you might have mental health issues. If they were on me and I didn't feel them, I need to go to a doctor. See? That's not point blank. Not only does "I'm feeling you" have numerous connotations that mean completely different things from what you intend it to, but its also assuming that something is still holding you back from saying, in no uncertain terms, "I (like/love/whatever the hell you want to put there) you a lot, and I feel that we should try to work on a better, closer, and loving relationship with each other. What do you think?" <<< THAT is point blank. With that said, don't take someone not wanting to be with you in the first place as "he doesn't understand... why don't men understand me?" In addition, if you're going to bring your feelings to his attention, it would, perhaps, be a better idea if you came into the situation assuming that he doesn't know what your standpoint is. If he tries to look at things from your standpoint, he could construe your position into something else. Instead, if you would clearly explain the situation so that it doesn't matter what "stand point" you're looking at it from, then you are more likely to come to an effective solution.
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hmm....I see you've gone through this little ordeal huh? lol
well I posted it because no matter what I say my man never understands what I mean and I can't say it in any plainer that what I have been saying it.
well I posted it because no matter what I say my man never understands what I'm saying. I mean I can't say it any plainer than what I have been saying it. I just needed help on how to explain to him how I felt since he's not getting it the way I'm saying it.
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It is probaly because he or she does not care, or is not emotionally or mentally able to handle it.
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I think
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lili2007 wrote:Why can't men understand that when a woman tells him what she feels she means it? Why can't men understand that when a woman tries to explain something leave your mind open and try to comprehend the situation from her satnd point? Why can't men understand women; point blank?![]()

