Physical vs. Emotional Attraction
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Started by smc112
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Aug 2007
smc112
Laguana Hills, CA
Which do you think is the strongest? Which one would you prefer over the other one and why? You can't choose both. You have to give an explanation of which one you would choose and why. Men can answer this question too.
I will start by saying that I would choose Emotional attraction. I have actually dated attractive men in the past that have been foul individuals. Also, I've dated some average looking men that have been foul. So basically I do not choose a man based on looks. I would say that I'm attracted to someone who treats me like the queen that I am! I wish I could say the same smc112...Honestly I feel that about 99% of ppl are good at heart and that its only because of circumstances why certain ppl don't show it or just take longer to. However, everyone just CAN'T be attractive no matter how hard you try to make them(the best that could happen is that their face kinda rubs off on you). That being said, I'd rather put in a lil more work and bring out the good in you then sit there resenting ur face every time I see u (that can't be good for a relationship..lol).... Plus..I feel like I work too hard to keep myself together to settle for someone whose appearance doesn't complement my own...
...looks down in shame...i feel soooo shallow
...looks down in shame...i feel soooo shallow
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PRAISE THE LORD!!!
This question is like a catch 22...but it does get you to thinking...
I'm going to be honest, before I can even get to know someone in order for there to be a emotional attraction, he has to be nice looking to me
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He doesn't have to be "movie star" handsome, but he can't be **** either
I do choose emotional because looks do change with age. I want someone that I enjoy being with and they make me feel like there is no one in the world like me
. Even if we don't agree it wont be a big blow out, we will be able to work through anything. Now don't misunderstand me, before I even get to the emotional attraction I have to watch him
(not stalk him) and see if he has a "true" relationship with God, because if he doesn't
than it doesn't matter how good he looks or how nice he is!!!
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He doesn't have to be "movie star" handsome, but he can't be **** either
I do choose emotional because looks do change with age. I want someone that I enjoy being with and they make me feel like there is no one in the world like me
. Even if we don't agree it wont be a big blow out, we will be able to work through anything. Now don't misunderstand me, before I even get to the emotional attraction I have to watch him
(not stalk him) and see if he has a "true" relationship with God, because if he doesn't Sister Tamara wrote:PRAISE THE LORD!!! Now don't misunderstand me, before I even get to the emotional attraction I have to watch him(not stalk him) and see if he has a "true" relationship with God, because if he doesn't
than it doesn't matter how good he looks or how nice he is!!!

