What if you like a dude but he had a Girl

well him and his girl just broke up and even though i like him i wont pursue him simply because he always cheated on her and i think i would be dumb to think he would change for me but he knows i have feelings for him and he thinks all be there when ever he needs me and i dont want to be his option for only when he's bored or something

So in other words, he could care less about you or any other woman. Move on, he's not worth it. He just wants to play.

yea i'm with her it seems like you already no kindof where its going to lead in to and i personally dont want you to be hurt so.... GIRL just move on there is someone better that is out there

but theres always this part of me that no matter what someone does i still care for them.... i know he's a **** and i just keep telling myself its just a phase he goin through.....on the other hand i know i should shut him out my life

im in the same situation, or was...me and this dude are really cool friends like we just clicked in a tight friendship way and he let me know right off the bat that he had a girlfriend and that he was in love with her, i knew he was... but he was attracted to me, though we never did anything that would ruin their relationship, i made sure of that cuz im not that type, then they were broken up for a cool while and we kinda talked on a more personal level... but then summer (now) comes and he goes home, they get back together, cuz i knew he was still in love with her so i didnt let myself fall for him, but shes kinda effing up...were still friends cuz thats all that we can be, he knows i respect his girl because as the saying goes "if a girl isnt respecting your girlfriend, she's not respecting you"... if the time is right and meant to be for us...it will be, im not waiting on him because even though i may have some feelings for him, right now he's not the one for me...