Shhhh!!

or you can do like me and just say you're not sure yet.......but let me enlighten With pan hel, better yet all greek organizations, whether they are pan hel or not, discretion is the key.....but discret.....if you're running around talking about wha tyou wanna do, they see right there that if you were on lin eyou'd have a problem with discretion.......also, they do not like bug a boos.....the thing is, you can ask them questions.....respectful low key questions....but do ask them a question eveery hour on the hour about themself, their frat, the sistahs or bruhs, if you gonna ask questions, adn things that they have no problems asking...like the principles their frat is based on. I'm greek, not pan hel greek, but greak (ALPHA PHI OMEGA....CO-ED), and I knwo I hate it when people ask me 101 questions about me and my bruhs (Coed frats call everyone bruhs) adn out frat.....9 times outta 10 they can find most of the info on teh national website.... If you wanna be down with a certain frat ot soror, attend there events, befriend the members genuinely, and research............