Im a very aggressive/assertive person and Ive been this way every since I can remember.I would want a guy who could help me balance out my aggression because I do seem to intimidate guys esp. the ones with ego problems.So, I'd prefer my mate to be a little bit of both if possible.
I would rather a female to be Aggressive, not just towards me or people but more so about life and things in general. That shows to me that she is focused and won't deal with no Bull$#!T plus I liKe a good challenge. And she's gonna have to Know how to hold her own and not bacK down, to me especially. If I can get away with stuff with you, then I'ma feel that I can just walK over you, and I'd rather continue on moving than to do that...
But if she can be aggressive without over doing it, and coming at me the wrong way then we got that partnership and it's all to the good!
That's what I need
I love myself an aggressive woman. I'm attracted to intelligence and drive just as much if not more than the physical. Passive women tend to be indecisive and i've found out have alot of baggage from what previous men who ran all over them did. Theres more to it than that but i'll save some for later.
i like a balance b/t the two...
and i'm for the most part aggressive... since i moved to Charlotte, i realized that i better have a backbone or people will walk on me... and i've been the way that i am since... i've been known to hurt girls and guys' feelings easily... sad thing is i don't realize it's happenin... but that's how i am... take it or leave it... :arrow:
