I was just thinking about something and wanted to know did any like i did in love @ first convo.
Have you ever talked 2 a person for the 1st time for hours on top of hours and at the end you felt something for that person.
I have and i believe in that
Because you cant tell your heart to think
Your heart is gonna do it's on thing no matter what your mind say
So am i the only one that believes in love @ first convo
See at 1st is like lust to me but convo is something different
So what u think
I believe in the presumption of love after the first convo, especially if the first convo is over the phone or internet, it seems so special, and too good to be true, because it usually is, I learned along time ago, it is too easy to hide all your bad traits over the phone, traits that dont come out until you're face to face...besides half the time, one party is knee deep in the convo, and the other party is dozing off or looking at ****...it is a nice feeling to think you've found someone special, especially off this site, I mean you see the pretty face (pictures can be liars too) then you get to see this lovely elegant personality...and then you realize they live half a country away...lol...ahh well...
I did have an interesting and long convo last night with someone who I never really talked to, I mean we talked before, but...mostly "What up...how you doin....holla"...last night I actually got to know a little bit of her...and I told her I would convince her that I was her type in due time...unfortunately, the reality of it is, she will be in Maryland, and I will be in NC...so we'll most likely end up being just friends...hey, I didnt make a love connection last night, but I did meet somebody really cool...and I didnt expect that...
I never really believed in it until recently. I had an immediate reaction like WTF is this. Now this person got me thinking about him all the time, I never met anyone like him and definitly didn't think i would experience anything like it.
lol, i feel what cha sayin'...
but i don't believe in love at 1ST ANYthing...looks, convo, or othawise...
just like i believe in lust @ 1st sight....i believe in infatuation @ 1st convo....
infatuation can be pretty intense...so it feels like love, i suppose....
but ya just can't be in love with someone based on the first conversation alone....'cause what about the second...or tha third? ya might've jus' caught 'em on a really good day...
i know i've fell in infatuation with people's first convos. before....& i know others who have too....it's tricky...but i know it's not love....
i feel ya, tho...it's kinda sweet, when ya think about it....
lol...anyways tho...No I dont...
Even tho I never been in love before I would think to fall in love with someone u gotta get to know them and their personality...and fall in love witht them for all the things you know about them...and learn to love and accept some of their faults, and much more.
I find that to be impossible in one conversation...I think falling in love with something that takes time and happens gradually...not immediately..Thats why its called FALLING in love...cause it happens over time.
lol once again, someone been smoking that good ish
nah no love at first convo right here...umm didnt know that could happen ya know...kinda creepy but umm ALRIGHTY THEN! :wink:
****....yeah it really was...
