Ladies I wanna know if you think I'm to young to wanna get married and start a family?
Now I'm 21 and i have done my share of dirt
I have broke hearts
And i have had mine broke
I have done a lot of flirting and dating and that is not fun
Now I'm at the stage where i feel I'm ready 2 settle for good
Enough with games i wanna girl that i can take home 2 mom for Christmas
Go eat thanksgiving dinner with them year after year
Dont wanna be running from female 2 female anymore
But to me the females my age dont want that and the ones that do are spoken for.
So should i just work my magic and keep on with the flirt game
Some say just sit and wait for her to come
But where IM from if u dont work you dont get paid
So am i mature beyond my years because i wanna settle?
Or should i act my age which people my age a good percent want 2 play the field and flirt
So am i to young?
Ladies what do u think i should do?
Anybody who uses the phrase "N!ggas always gotta hate on me" is obviously too immature to handle something as L O N G T E R M as marriage.
yer 21!!!!???!!! yet you sit up here and argue with a guy on the internet just because he colored your picture???? AND YOU WANNA START A FAMILY????
Dafukkouttahere......You can't even SPELL correctly! How u gonna create a stable household when you don't know the difference between "too" and "to"
I'm sorry, everybody else might give you a "polite" response, but I don't feel like dealin' with the Bullshyt.
Anybody who uses the phrase "N!ggas always gotta hate on me" is obviously too immature to handle something as L O N G T E R M as marriage.
yer 21!!!!???!!! yet you sit up here and argue with a guy on the internet just because he colored your picture???? AND YOU WANNA START A FAMILY????
Dafukkouttahere......You can't even SPELL correctly! How u gonna create a stable household when you don't know the difference between "too" and "to"
I'm sorry, everybody else might give you a "polite" response, but I don't feel like dealin' with the Bullshyt.
QUIT hatin!!!
But if the dude wants to get married and have kids that's on him..Hopefully, he's mature enough for a realtionship that is suppose to last forever..
Some of you all have a misconception of marriage and what it entails. Personally, I think you're too young, and a man should want to be able to provide for his wife and children. If you're already rich and stable in your career then go for it. If not then don't put your wife and kids through the headache.
Remember marriage is as much a business decision as it is a relationship decision; and it's a vow before God. Besides, you should be young, travel and have fun. Be young, have fun and stop trying to grow up before you're ready. You've got 50 or 60 years of life to be married.
cosign 2 what NeoSoul....proAKAtive...& Iota said...
WileECoyote...i do feel what you're sayin' as well..but at the same time, that format doesn't work for everyone....some people are ready now...& some aren't, but just need to learn whatever they need to learn...
think it's just different strokez 4 different folkz...whatever works for you, go for it...as long as you have a clear head about it....& lookin' at the long-term (issues, goals, potential problems, etc.), not just the short...
Neo said go with ya mind....proAKAtive said go with ya heart....it's so hard to choose which one to lead with, but I just say try ta at least do it 50/50....if that's possible....
Hey if he thinks he is ready, then he could be. Many people start families that are not mature enough to even be parents, let alone mature adults...at least he knows what he wants
