For the ladies: top things ya'll look for in a man?

28 replies · 9600 views · Started by kickinit04 · Jul 2004
kickinit04 Washington, DC
this ought to be interesting...*bookmarks thread*
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Afro-American · Jul 2004
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since im not looking for ANY HU guy due to past experiences HU students need to disregard my statements completely: :arrow: 1st-- i look if they are actually a guy...some of yall stud acting lesbians scare me 2nd--uniqueness and creativity, not being afraid to rebel a bit from the HU norm 3rd--respect turnoffs--acting like the crowd and not having a mind of your own, and uncleanliness lol
· Jul 2004
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Hmmmmm............ What Attracts this Gabby is: 1. Ambition 2. Intelligence 3. Patience ( I can be random and moody at times, so this ying to my yang is a must :wink: ) What Turns Me Off: 1. Someone Who Doesn't Have a Spine (ooooo goodness, nothing makes more mad or frustrated than a man who can't speak up for himself or assert what he wantz or standz for) 2. Someone Who Doesn't Know How to Treat Women (If you don't know how and to recognize and respect and lady when u see one, u and me are definitely gonna get into, cuz I will break u off a big **** piece of my mind.....)
Blutifully Human · Jul 2004
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HU-Queen wrote:
since im not looking for ANY HU guy due to past experiences HU students need to disregard my statements completely: :arrow: 1st-- i look if they are actually a guy...some of yall stud acting lesbians scare me 2nd--uniqueness and creativity, not being afraid to rebel a bit from the HU norm 3rd--respect turnoffs--acting like the crowd and not having a mind of your own, and uncleanliness lol
Queenie...don't be such a meanie :lol: . Don't limit yourself. A HU man just might end up being your soulmate...ya never know :wink: As for me...when it comes to guys, my interests are... :arrow: 1. First and foremost, i am especially drawn/attracted to men that have a strong spiritual foundation and value their relationship with their Lord & Savior (Jesus Christ). I think if they can truly love and dedicate themselves to God, that says alot about their character. :arrow: 2. Intelligence. Being able to engage in a decent conversation with me would be a plus . :arrow: 3. Sense of humor. I am VERY silly & goofy at times and it's just cool when you can crack jokes and just be crazy with a friend. :arrow: 4. Individuality. I'm not picky on style. Whether you're into the business suits, jerseys, polo shirt w/blazer, whateva...as long as you're just doing you, and fully comfortable in your skin, then i think that's cool. :arrow: 5. Chivalry. Ok, i know they say that "chivalry is ****", but i think we need to ressurect that sucka. I think it is soooo...attractive when a man opens a door for woman, pulls out her chair, lets her walk on the inside of the sidewalk,...all of that...and even the otha stuff that i'm forgetting. Pet peeves:...disrespectful towards women (the whole b!tch/hoe thing is not cute), no morals, shallow/superficial, materialistic, conceited/cocky (humility is a beautiful thing), etc. etc. ok...clearly, i'm alot pickier than i thought i was. lol. Ah well. Didn't mean to make such a long list. Do u guys think i'm askin for too much???......naaaaaah, of course not!
cupcake8503 · Jul 2004
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1st-- i look if they are actually a guy...some of yall stud acting lesbians scare me
**** :lol: :lol: Anyway... Turn ons: Smart Ambitious Easy to talk to Fun to be around DRAMA FREE Decent Looking Knows How to treat a woman Knowing how to make the best of a situation (i.e. we are in college and can understand that funds are low so be creative when it comes to showing a girl a good time) Turn Offs: Being a complete asshole Playing with my emotions Not knowing what you want to become of us Not being upfront about what you want Not letting me know how you feel about me Using me at your damn convience...like I don't have feelings Standing me up on Valentine's Day...(ok im getting personal sorry ya'll) Just basically playing games :x
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cupcake8503 · Jul 2004
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kndhrtd1@theREALHU wrote:
:arrow: 5. Chivalry. Ok, i know they say that "chivalry is ****", but i think we need to ressurect that sucka. I think it is soooo...attractive when a man opens a door for woman, pulls out her chair, lets her walk on the inside of the sidewalk,...all of that...and even the otha stuff that i'm forgetting.
Oh yeah! How could I forget. This is such a big thing for me and I really do pay attention to these things when I go out with a guy.
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Afro-American · Jul 2004
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kndhrtd1@theREALHU wrote:
HU-Queen wrote:
since im not looking for ANY HU guy due to past experiences HU students need to disregard my statements completely: :arrow: 1st-- i look if they are actually a guy...some of yall stud acting lesbians scare me 2nd--uniqueness and creativity, not being afraid to rebel a bit from the HU norm 3rd--respect turnoffs--acting like the crowd and not having a mind of your own, and uncleanliness lol
Queenie...don't be such a meanie :lol: . Don't limit yourself. A HU man just might end up being your soulmate...ya never know :wink: !
SEE why ya gotta curse me like that, hell if i am gonna be one of those old alumni couples coming to every homecoming/HU vs HIU game like im still young with my HU sun visor and rolling around my HU-gear wearing kids in strollers with HU stickers on em :? and my balding husband trying to do QUE/kappa moves on da yard and barking or some ish......HELL TO THE NAW :lol:
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· Jul 2004
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:lol: ^^^^ dont yall think ur being a littttle **** the HU fellaz........*shrugs* iono, it just seemz that way to me.........
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PrimeTime1919 · Jul 2004
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Yeah!! :evil: ... :cry:
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Afro-American · Jul 2004
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homiegrl wrote:
:lol: ^^^^ dont yall think ur being a littttle **** the HU fellaz........*shrugs* iono, it just seemz that way to me.........
lol gurrrlll you aint even been at HU one semester and you talking about we "being too hard" :wink: ...shoot once ya see that uneven ratio and the amount of immature/playa type guys ..game over...FLIP FLIP FLIP :lol:
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