You know what, seeing all of this stress thats on EJ, I almost feel bad for dragging his pride through the dirt like that.
*laughs some* but Im okay with that.
I think people believe I just say things to **** people off, I think what She really needs to do is take heed to the precautionary signs of this relationship not working...you know, like him being in Jail for all that time. How would it feel to say I do and then he ends up back there? What kind of permanence are you looking for?
I dont know that I agree with EJ about the 2 months deal...some people do need time to heal after relationships, but if it takes two people that long to get over each other then they really need to reevaluate whats really good. I admit that I may get hurt when I ex calls me and cries to me on the phone saying how my pain is her fault and it makes me feel like sh*t, but I know that its a chapter of my life thats done.
Still, you dont just rebound into Marriage. Thats not a rebound, thats like a Technical Foul. Aint nuthin right about that.
Im just gonna ask you to take marriage a bit more seriously than the girls you see on the movies who jump around all happy with their hand out and a dusty **** rock on their finger, screaming in high pitched voices about whos gonna be the maid of honor.
But if everything goes well me and Shanelle might stop by and bless the wedding... *snickering* :twisted:
I have know Idea what the f@ck I did to all of you all to be recieving all t his bliss but its cool......Chris, you didnt even like it when I came at you the wrong way so why the f@ck you come at me like that ? I just want to know....
So you say I am a HOE....Is that right? I will be that hoe....f@ck all yall....yall aint Shiiiiiiiyiiiit to me cuz you know what I am going to do what the f@ck I plan to do Marry My BF. and thats that.
For the record Mikchek came at me....He is the one who wanted to talk to me.....I aint even let that happen....
Chris (CJ), as for him, me and him are cool. He is some I have gotten to know and he is the only one who I talk to about every thing.
I am happy out here in this world cuz my baby is home....I aint got to worry about any thang.....Im moving out next month....I got mine....I dont need my momma for nothing cuz I am working 2 jobs paying my own bills. why most of you all are still looking for a job so I have nothing to complain about. I pay rent ...But I can take care of me. Im straight.
*laughs, rolling his eyes* Whatever, its your life.
*skips off* tralalalalala....
I have know Idea what the f@ck I did to all of you all to be recieving all t his bliss but its cool......Chris, you didnt even like it when I came at you the wrong way so why the f@ck you come at me like that ? I just want to know....
So you say I am a HOE....Is that right? I will be that hoe....f@ck all yall....yall aint Shiiiiiiiyiiiit to me cuz you know what I am going to do what the f@ck I plan to do Marry My BF. and thats that.
For the record Mikchek came at me....He is the one who wanted to talk to me.....I aint even let that happen....
Chris (CJ), as for him, me and him are cool. He is some I have gotten to know and he is the only one who I talk to about every thing.
I am happy out here in this world cuz my baby is home....I aint got to worry about any thang.....Im moving out next month....I got mine....I dont need my momma for nothing cuz I am working 2 jobs paying my own bills. why most of you all are still looking for a job so I have nothing to complain about. I pay rent ...But I can take care of me. Im straight.
*SNAPZ FINGAS 3XS* I GOT A JOB :? ...O KAY KAY KAYYYYY?????
I have know Idea what the f@ck I did to all of you all to be recieving all t his bliss but its cool......Chris, you didnt even like it when I came at you the wrong way so why the f@ck you come at me like that ? I just want to know....
So you say I am a HOE....Is that right? I will be that hoe....f@ck all yall....yall aint Shiiiiiiiyiiiit to me cuz you know what I am going to do what the f@ck I plan to do Marry My BF. and thats that.
For the record Mikchek came at me....He is the one who wanted to talk to me.....I aint even let that happen....
Chris (CJ), as for him, me and him are cool. He is some I have gotten to know and he is the only one who I talk to about every thing.
I am happy out here in this world cuz my baby is home....I aint got to worry about any thang.....Im moving out next month....I got mine....I dont need my momma for nothing cuz I am working 2 jobs paying my own bills. why most of you all are still looking for a job so I have nothing to complain about. I pay rent ...But I can take care of me. Im straight.
*SNAPZ FINGAS 3XS* I GOT A JOB :? ...O KAY KAY KAYYYYY?????
and i got a job that i've been with for 4 years... i may have been lookin for a 2nd job... and i'm easier to look at for customers... :roll:
and i got a job that i've been with for 4 years... i may have been lookin for a 2nd job... and i'm easier to look at for customers... :roll:
**** True....don't be mad cuz u ****
And to nia, I am in school, I don't NEED to be having no jobs, wtf I don't have rent to pay....this my summer break
*shouts to nia "u ****" over and over again while doing the butterfly*
I have know Idea what the f@ck I did to all of you all to be recieving all t his bliss but its cool......Chris, you didnt even like it when I came at you the wrong way so why the f@ck you come at me like that ? I just want to know....
So you say I am a HOE....Is that right? I will be that hoe....f@ck all yall....yall aint Shiiiiiiiyiiiit to me cuz you know what I am going to do what the f@ck I plan to do Marry My BF. and thats that.
For the record Mikchek came at me....He is the one who wanted to talk to me.....I aint even let that happen....
Chris (CJ), as for him, me and him are cool. He is some I have gotten to know and he is the only one who I talk to about every thing.
I am happy out here in this world cuz my baby is home....I aint got to worry about any thang.....Im moving out next month....I got mine....I dont need my momma for nothing cuz I am working 2 jobs paying my own bills. why most of you all are still looking for a job so I have nothing to complain about. I pay rent ...But I can take care of me. Im straight.
Nia....u need to go to school..... Instead of trying to live as life of a bachelor/master degree graduate.....Your Ex/Fiancee should even go with you :wink:
And as for Chris......you all may be cool....but u all can't be close...you only seen each other a couple of times :? The phone don't mean nothing..... And why do you talk to him about everything??? He hardly knows you???
Like I said...that money you using to try and move out.... could go to school and have an easier life....American Eagel and That massage place ain't going to make it.....You need a stable career. What if you get fired the next day???? You will be SOL!!!
Go to school...focus on a career...get stable...and become patient...good things happen to thoose who are patient.
Look at me for example....I'm an intern for a politician; that pays little.....I'm doing two indpendent movies; that pays little to nothing....and I'm going to Morehouse...Even though I'm not making 6 figures yet....I'm preparing myself and building my potiential and life by taking small steps...
I'm planning essential tools that can make my life stable so when it comes for me to get married and have kids...I will have a little to offer....
In the end...I will have good things happen to me...
I refuse to have my family live in an apartment and ride the bus...
They deserve my fruits in which I worked hard to produce....
Going to school and participating in career aimed activities will help me...
This is what you should be doing in your life right now.....Working is good...
However, going to school, focusing on your career and GOD's purpose for you life is the only way out for a great life...GOD said in the book of Genesis that hard work will equal the fruits of joy....
if u want a great marriage or life...I encourage you to wait ten years...go get a degree or two.... plan your stability in the work place...cause u will need it...you are a black woman ...who is starting school late...
American Eagel may go bankrupt in a few years....There stock is dropping drastically...and that massage place...thoose aren't stable jobs.....
and downing others on here about a lack of jobs is not good...they are in school...and nine times out of ten...they may be your boss in the future...
Please thinkabout what I said :? When you came to ATL...u said u wanted a life like I had..U siad u weren't use to things like I had and some of the things my classmates of the AU had.....
If you want thoose things...go to school and focus on your career. Not marriage...you just turned 20....your just coming out of a teenager stage...realize you are young...illerate of the stages of marriage and adult life...and go to school and learn about this life and various stages of adult life...
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-- EJ
Please encourage your EX/fiancee to got to school....cause it will be extra hard for him to get a job to support you!!!! Please think about this!!!
And by the way NIA.... you did not do nothing to anybody...
You are on an HBCU website...where people hate each other but love each other because we are positive black people attending an HBCU....where we will become future leaders in this world.....
We pick people up who have potiential.....and we know you have potiential...
(You will understand this oce you are among black people in college)
This is why we are dogging you out....so you can realize you are making a mistake that can ruin your life for awhile.....
Please think about this mistake....and make a great decision....
You been wanting to go to school since January...It is June...what is keeping you from attending school? I can answer that....You want validation...and your seeking it in a boyfriend.....
To get validation at your age...go to school..you will find yourself and then validate yourself :wink:
Trust me...I've been through my first year and I'm found myself alot...
Just imagine what three more years will do
-EJ
Instead of trying to live as life of a bachelor/master degree graduate.....Your Ex/Fiancee should even go with you :wink:
And as for Chris......you all may be cool....but u all can't be close...you only seen each other a couple of times 
-EJ
