xavierette wrote:Poody da Cutie wrote:maaaaaaaaan mikchek tried to holla at errbodymickeys back wrote:For the record Mikchek came at me....He is the one who wanted to talk to me.....I aint even let that happen....
mickeys back wrote:I AM GETTING MARRIED!!!!!!!! When? In September. Where? At Cook County Court House. When is the actual wedding? March 1st, 2005
* walks in in a state of shock*
The last time that I was on here you were with EJ, but I guess :cry: everybody is breakin up.
I'm glad that you found happiness with someone else..... even though this news comes as a total shock to me.
You and your fiance' have been together for a while, so I guess that you have thought this through enough to know that you are makin the right decision.
Just make sure that you post some pics up here of the wedding when you get 'em.
Good luck and congrats gurrl!!! 
**MissC is 20** wrote:I still want to know the point in getting married at the court house...then having a wedding some months later. Can anyone explain this to me?
**MissC is 20** wrote:^^^ :lol: How you gonna call her conniving and you were trying to get married for financial aid? I just want to know the point of spending money on a wedding and the whole nine when you're already married. I can see going to the court house and maybe having a reception afterwards...but why the ceremony and vows all over again.
BigDaddy Tres wrote:Still, you dont just rebound into Marriage. Thats not a rebound, thats like a Technical Foul. Aint nuthin right about that.
Erek & **** wrote:This is why we are dogging you out....so you can realize you are making a mistake that can ruin your lifefor awhile.....
**MissC is 20** wrote:I still want to know the point in getting married at the court house...then having a wedding some months later. Can anyone explain this to me?
**MissC is 20** wrote:I just want to know the point of spending money on a wedding and the whole nine when you're already married. I can see going to the court house and maybe having a reception afterwards...but why the ceremony and vows all over again.i feel ya, carlene....i don't really c tha point either, but....everyone has their reasons.... & with all of that said...finally got a chance 2 read tha rest of this thread (from where I last replied)....&... Nia, I'm not gonna try to preach to u....'cause I see some have, and I do agree with most (those who went about it the right way, that is :roll:...i.e. Tres...& EJ, sorta....) It's almost ALways easier givin' advice when u're lookin' from the outside inwards....& to u and everyone else up here....i know i've seen females or people period (but mostly females) who have their hearts so set on a situation in love that u could talk for ten years str8...& they still ain't tryna hear it... That's why I say that...disregarding the str8-up negative stuff said in this thread that really had no relevance to ya news....you should really take heed to some of the advice....some (SOME) of these people r really just trying to help, y'know....you don't have to take the advice, necessarily (& i know u ain't)...but just keep it all in mind.... & u know Black folkz gonna alwayz give their 2 centz anyway, whether it be good or bad OR whether u asked (or like it) or not, lol...that's just us - we can't keep quiet.... & like I believe it was Tres that said early on in the thread....if ya love with this person & the future with him is all u makin' it up to be...& u feel ya 110% in all of it....then none of this should've really gotten to u offensively....u just gotta do you.... i wish ya congratulationz one more time...as well as much luck whatever your choice ends up being....& whether or not u do end up marrying him.... whatever's meant to be...will be...Well I say good luck. you only know whats right for you, so do what your heart and mind tells you#129 ReplyIf you can't tell your parents about it...that could be a sign. We had a discussion about something similar on saturday at a church event and the lady was like everybody was telling her No...don't do it...but she did anyway because she was in love....and she became a battered wife <----not saying this will happen, but sometimes you have to take heed to what people say. Then sometimes you just have to say F it and learn the lesson.#130 Replythere it iz in a nutshell...**MissC is 20** wrote:sometimes you have to take heed to what people say. Then sometimes you just have to say F it and learn the lesson.More DiscussionsAfrican-Americans in Afrikahcafe-aulait · Nov 201645HALLE OR ANGELAAfro-American · Nov 201232Ghetto Baby Name of the Day!Rubberband Man · Aug 2012132Name that movieAFROdytee · Feb 201144My Brother & Me: THE MOVIEP o e t i q R e i g n · Feb 201134Featured Jobs & Internships
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