Tell me...

Since there's been mad posts about what first attracts you to a dude, let's flip it around... instead of what first gets your attention, what keeps it? Once you meet a guy, what lets you know he's someone you would want to get to know more about? And the other way around - what would immediately turn you off? Just curious. Holla!

what keeps me: intelligence (books smarts as well as streets smarts)....a great sense of humor, ability 2 make me laugh sincerely...respectfulness (<--that a word?)....sarcasm tendancies, lol...and good conversationalist...& him havin a lot of opinions 2 different things (& tha ability 2 discuss or debate about 'em) is a plus... what shakes me: ignorance...too much seriousness....disrespectfulness....too much passiveness (truthfully, i think if i had ta choose between a passive dude & an aggressive one, i'd choose tha aggressive one...shoot, i need someone wit a backbone, dammit)....& constant dishonesty...

keeps:makes me laugh nice smile all his teeth, look in to my eyes and not at my 44 DD's gone: Table manners and his agressiveness if a **** dont know which fork to use and he eats like a pig thats a big turn off!

Attracts: Making me laugh, being real, intelligence, not having to be the life of the show, a nice smile, a lil bit of cockiness.... Repels: Having to have ALL the attention, being misleading, trying to be a player (u can't play a ****), ****, close-mindedness, not having any goals...

if he makes bodily noises...its over

Gotta luv a man who knows how to respect a woman, has goals and is out to achieve them, good relationship with his mother, intelligent, dresses nicely, civilized but ready to throw down for his girl, nice smile a must, knows how to give a girl her space and knows how to make me laugh. Any liars, cheaters, jobless, goal-less, cocky, dirty, academic probation **** negroes need not apply :evil:

What keeps my attention?? Being as tho Im very difficult to please that's kinda hard 2 explain... What keeps my attention..is how he is overall..like once we've been on that first date..and he plays it cool..doesnt push for much..****like that. Shows me that he's interested but..kinda plays mind games at the same time..Basically if he lets me kno that he's the H.N.I.C and i can't run ovah him then thats a good sign I don't like it when he calls 2 much..but i don't like it when he doesnt call enough..I don't want 2 see em everyday..but i do want 2 spend time with em Im so uhh mixed up its hard 2 explain..when i meet the guy who does all of this..then i'll let yall kno :roll: