I actually prefer a combination of both. A man who can hold an intelligent conversation and speak intellectually about a particular topic, but at the same time he can't be no *****, lol. He needs to be able to hold his own and protect my honor as well if necessary. I guess I'm lookin for an urban renaissance man.
Yall just remember this. A man will take care of him and his own.....U have to take care of a ****.
theTRUTH wrote: Women dont know what they want; they never have and probably never will. They are the most indecisive group on this planet. That's why it is up to us as men to decide for them.
Thanks, this thread can now be closed.
are you serious.......? i would laugh at your little ignorant comment but im not going to entertain such nonsense! EDUCATE YOURSELF then get back at me!
I think there is a place for both type of guys. There are always women who'll want the **** but then again, there are those who will want the educated preppy type. Either way, as long as he treats you how you wanted to be treated, that what matters.
datds07
from Jonesboro, GA
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Jul 2007
LOl. C_Nels u crazy boi!...I think that's alittle too little. Lol. But personally I prefer the educated men. ANd of course saved. Thugs can't do nothin for me.
PRAISE THE LORD!!!
I was going to respond to this post when it first got started, but I wanted to hear what other people had to say. This is a never-ending debate, but it's always interesting...
Being that I AM the female that this post is refering to, I must say that I prefer an educated brother. Someone that's decent and respectful. Not loud and ego-centered. Someone honest and not selfish. Someone who has a plan for their life and is not just living on "would of's, could of's, and should of's." Someone who knows the value of a female and treat me as such. Now I do agree with some of the post, because just because you go to college, this doesn't make you educated. So, I'm not referring to the "educated fool." However, seeing as thou I am pursueing my Bachelor's and thinking about my Masters, than I will need a brother that can bring something to the table. Now, don't get me wrong, I'm not materialistic, I'm talking about my future. A brother who is not intimidated by my brains and beauty. LOL
I wouldn't even think about a ****, because regardless of what anybody says "A **** don't respect females...not the one their with or the one on the side!!!" It's not in a ****'s nature to be with one female. See, that's just the start of disrespect. Not to mention how he talks at you and not to you. Say what you want, a TRUE **** is nothing to get excited about, especially if you're looking for a relationship. You'll mess around and get "strung out" on that guy and before you know it he'll have you in the bed with another girl **** flicks. Talking about "if you love me you'll_____." (Fill in your own blank.) My brothers, my cousins and their guys are straight thugs and I know enough to know that there is no future with a ****. Now, on the other hand, if we're talking about a wanna-be ****, than he don't count. He's a part-timer.
