but theres always this part of me that no matter what someone does i still care for them.... i know he's a **** and i just keep telling myself its just a phase he goin through.....on the other hand i know i should shut him out my life
You are going to miss out on someone that will make you feel special if you keep entertaining this guy. Leave him alone, I know it's easier said than done, but the proof is in the puddin. He's not ready for a serious relationship.
If you don't mind him cheating on you and making you feel less of a woman than go ahead cuz in the end, you're the one who has to deal with him.
Wat Would You Do? knowing that you in love with him.....
I'd leave him alone because as much as i like him i'm sure his girl does too. If he is willing to cheat on her or leave her for me he'll probably do the same to me as soon as someone better comes along.
If I was anybody that was anybody, I wouldn't mess with that. There's a K word that spells K-A-R-M-A that comes back 100x worse.
I'd have to get over it.
Oh? You got a woman? I can get over that quick and easy.
Especially if you're and educated, black female doing her thing in the world...
You'll be iight.
im in the same situation, or was...me and this dude are really cool friends like we just clicked in a tight friendship way and he let me know right off the bat that he had a girlfriend and that he was in love with her, i knew he was... but he was attracted to me, though we never did anything that would ruin their relationship, i made sure of that cuz im not that type, then they were broken up for a cool while and we kinda talked on a more personal level... but then summer (now) comes and he goes home, they get back together, cuz i knew he was still in love with her so i didnt let myself fall for him, but shes kinda effing up...were still friends cuz thats all that we can be, he knows i respect his girl because as the saying goes "if a girl isnt respecting your girlfriend, she's not respecting you"... if the time is right and meant to be for us...it will be, im not waiting on him because even though i may have some feelings for him, right now he's not the one for me...
I wanted to comment on this post yesterday and forgot. It seems as we have two young ladies with a similar problem.
It seems to me that you are (or were) just hoping and wishing this girl messed up so you can get her man. You are actually helping by still kicking it with him. Go get your own! Forget about her effing up, that's their business.
I never heard of that saying but you're still being disrespectful to him AND his woman. You are also contradicting yourself...either you two click or you don't.
A woman who is willing to be friends with a man until he breaks up with his woman is a dangerous somethin. But remember THIS saying, what goes around comes around. And it's a mutha when it does.
I share my thoughts with much love.
i dont think i was waiting for anyone to screw up...i just liked him because he told me he liked me and we use to talk everyday. We sat next each all year and would be on the phone for hours. When i meet him i was just getting out of a long relationship and my ex really hurt me. So when he started talking to me it made me forget about my ex. Then i found out about his girl and all his others lies. But im not the type to mess with others peoples relationship... I cared for him so much we they broke up i told him he should go talk to her and apologize for what ever he did. But, im not date him even if he is single because that would be messed up
I wanted to comment on this post yesterday and forgot. It seems as we have two young ladies with a similar problem.
It seems to me that you are (or were) just hoping and wishing this girl messed up so you can get her man. You are actually helping by still kicking it with him. Go get your own! Forget about her effing up, that's their business.
I never heard of that saying but you're still being disrespectful to him AND his woman. You are also contradicting yourself...either you two click or you don't.
A woman who is willing to be friends with a man until he breaks up with his woman is a dangerous somethin. But remember THIS saying, what goes around comes around. And it's a mutha when it does.
I share my thoughts with much love.
I never hoped his girl messed up. we were just friends and while they were together, as a friend I would give him advice about their relationship when he asked, i know its not my business to even meddle in or give advice but if he asked i'd help him out. maybe out of stubborness i ignored my feelings because it wasnt till they broke up that i felt that i had feelings for him, but while they were together it wasnt of the sort. I know that what goes around comes around that is why i was careful not to do anything that would affect his relationship besides just be a coo friend. but youre right im not helping by kicking it with him, thats why when i thought about it, in my new post i said forget it, move on.. and that what i plan to do.. and if it so happens later down the line so be it but now, no its not the time for me... so im movin on... thanks for ur insight
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