Well I generally like a man who is aggressive .. And I think alot of people confuse aggressive with controlling .. I mean I want him to be negotiable .. But aggressive .. To me .. Passive also spells push over .. So yeah .. I need my image of a MAN .. And push over is not it ..
Now as far as myself .. I am aggressive but I am also passive at times as well .. It just depends on the situation
I'm a little too passive to have a passive man. I love...well, like agressive men. I like people who know what they want and can communicate their wants and needs....
agressive b/c i can't be seen in public with no punk...i gotta rep to maintain!!!!
also if you agressive that lets me know you ain't for no shyyyyitttttt....b/c i ain't either....either you know what you want outta life or you don't!!!
I'm passive in relationships...I don't like being the aggressor...I just like to let things flow unless there is a problem..Then I debate (I don't argue with women, pointless...it's like beating up someone with no arms...you still wrong)
I end up being with women that start off fronting like they passive and end up being aggressive as hell...I don't get it...I just meet they passive representative until they decide to show themself....
Hmm I would say im pretty Agressive when i WANT something bad..when i get in a relationship i usually let the guy take the lead..cuz he's the guy..and i like a guy who knows how 2 be in control...
Which leads 2 the second part..I love an AGRESSIVE guy..1 who'll take charge..tell me what we doing..dis n dat...I only like agressive guys when I like them as a person tho..cuz right now this guy chasing after me..and im like ugh..he's pretty agressive and i can't stand him :roll:
