Have u ever thought that u might be missing out on "The One" because of ur preference? I mean what if "The One" isnt dark skin with a big **** .. Or tall and cut .. BUT .. U wouldnt know because thats what u like and u rule out all others not fitting this preference .. Ever thought about it?
I always keep that in mind. Just because I have standards doesnt mean Ima rule out a completely great guy just because he doesnt qualify for all my " preferences " Thats just stupid. :roll:
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i feel ya tho, choklatpoet...i've thought about that many times...mostly about my LOVE for TALL brothaz...
like, watch my soulmate be a midget :?
i feel what you saying cause a lot of people tell me that i need to look on what's on the inside too but i be like what if it's the inside i don't like ha! thought so keep your comments to yourself! don't try to call me shallow
I always keep that in mind. Just because I have standards doesnt mean Ima rule out a completely great guy just because he doesnt qualify for all my " preferences " Thats just stupid. :roll:
Ok we are not talking about small preferences here .. I mean of course if ur diggin this guy who has brown eyes but u really like blue eyes then ur not gonna rule him out but I mean BiG preferences .. You have ur preferences that u are willing the change but then u have those that u are not Ie .. Willing to accept brown hair over black but definitely not willing to change the fact that u dont date people who smoke cigarettes .. Like Meya only likin tall guys .. I mean what if everything shes looking for is in a man who is 5'3 or alot of guys dont like bigger girls but what if everything they needed was packed inside someone the size of Monique but they would never know simply because of their MAJOR preferences
I always keep that in mind. Just because I have standards doesnt mean Ima rule out a completely great guy just because he doesnt qualify for all my " preferences " Thats just stupid. :roll:
Ok we are not talking about small preferences here .. I mean of course if ur diggin this guy who has brown eyes but u really like blue eyes then ur not gonna rule him out but I mean BiG preferences .. You have ur preferences that u are willing the change but then u have those that u are not Ie .. Willing to accept brown hair over black but definitely not willing to change the fact that u dont date people who smoke cigarettes .. Like Meya only likin tall guys .. I mean what if everything shes looking for is in a man who is 5'3 or alot of guys dont like bigger girls but what if everything they needed was packed inside someone the size of Monique but they would never know simply because of their MAJOR preferences
I never really had a preference...although the one Im with now fits the personality that I admire...funny, smart, and great to be with... I was never really overwelmed by his appearance, eventhough he is beautiful in my eyes!! I do have outter qualities that I do love...tall dark skinned with muscles... but those guys I just call "eye candy" they really dont satisfy me with their personalities. But I know if I break up with the one I have no (which I dont plan on) I think Im going Italian...lol
****I thought I knew what I wanted until I met the guy I'm with now. He is opposite of EVERYTHING I "thought" I found attractive and now that it has happened I realize that I wouldn't want it any other way.
