In my opinion its hard to FIND ANYONE that you have a genuine connection with.
But i feel that there is a person out there for each of us. I know a lot of guys who just arent interested in going to school their main concern is finding a "good paying job". But we do have more and more going to school and trying to make something of themselves.
I for one believe that women if your not at a certain financial level don't knock a man whose not on that level either.
I see girls like I want a man with a car and a job while the girl is still taking the bus and living off of her parents. I don't think thats fair.
If you don't have a car don't expect him to.
But I was blessed to find a man thats on a level higher than me...the only reason I say this is b/c he's a college grad and in grad school.
But shoot i was toe for toe with him, we equally brought something to the relationship...I let him know from the get i can do and i gained his RESPECT as an individual and equal contributor to the relationship (we each had our own cars, we each lived on our own, and we were each financially stable) I think thats what many couples are lacking of today RESPECT fo one another.
"I think thats what many couples are lacking of today RESPECT fo one another."
Respect is the key into any successful relationship.It's also one of the major reasons why they always fail.
