Shrinking male pool?

In my opinion its hard to FIND ANYONE that you have a genuine connection with. But i feel that there is a person out there for each of us. I know a lot of guys who just arent interested in going to school their main concern is finding a "good paying job". But we do have more and more going to school and trying to make something of themselves. I for one believe that women if your not at a certain financial level don't knock a man whose not on that level either. I see girls like I want a man with a car and a job while the girl is still taking the bus and living off of her parents. I don't think thats fair. If you don't have a car don't expect him to. But I was blessed to find a man thats on a level higher than me...the only reason I say this is b/c he's a college grad and in grad school. But shoot i was toe for toe with him, we equally brought something to the relationship...I let him know from the get i can do and i gained his RESPECT as an individual and equal contributor to the relationship (we each had our own cars, we each lived on our own, and we were each financially stable) I think thats what many couples are lacking of today RESPECT fo one another.