Would you ever go with a girl that used to get flipped, even though she has changed her ways? For those that don't know what I am talkin about...I am talkin about the ones who used to have their share of "fun" maybe a few months ago or years ago, whether they had a lot of partners or just a few. I know that at FAMU, there are a lot of girls who may be girlfriend quality when they are juniors and seniors, but when they were freshmen, they may have been the ones who were allllways at the Kappa or Omega house gettin theirs. There are some that may not have done much, but the rumors got blown outta proportion, but then there were those that were damn near proud about what they used to do.
So would you ever go with one of these types of females..whether it's right now, or if it was a few years later when you were out of college? Would you forgive them for what they did in the past and be cool with them now because they are different, or would you write em off for what they did back then?
I could forgive a questionable past, as long as she is trustworthy in the present.
It all depends on how well you know the person. If you hang around long enough and pay attention, you will know her attitude and mindset. If she gives signs that she could go back to her old ways, stay away. If she hangs out with the same people and in the same environments, also stay away. If she is showing that she is serious about having a relationship, it might be something worth looking into.
People do change their lives, and the type of person who is responsible enough to realize that they've had their fun and is disciplined enough to change for the better is someone worth giving your time. Holla!
All i can say is if you judge someone by their pas thow are you gonna know if they have changed. I mean if ya'll start talking seriously and she comes out and tells you hey when i was a freshman this happend then how come you don't fell like you can trust her. I maen if she ain't a virgin then how did you think she came up with all the things yal'' did together. Just think Somebody had to teach you so who was teaching her.
Freshman year is alot for most girls to handle YOu are away form home probably haven't met a whole lot of people and the first peolpe to approach you on campus are the upperclassman Frat bro's. Things just happen and when you are searching for acceptance sometimes you'll let things happen.
That's y i love my school so much b/c i had big sis in my dorms looking at for me telling me who and what not to talk to. and that's why I like being an R.A. b/c im not gonna hate but i am gonna forewarn the freshman about the YARD.
But i mean how do ya'll view the NICCA's that was doing all of this with the chick I mena ya'll wanna clown on your boy for trying to talk to her you need to clown on those who was running the train or messing w/ her fromt the get go. That's how Sh*t get started. :roll:
Well I think it would be different depending on how I found out what she did. If I was talkin to her for a minute and I asked her about her past and she told me she did this and that, I think it would be a lot better than if I was walkin with her and my homeboy asked me later, "ey, you are talkin to her? I mean, she coo, but freshman year......" I know that some females wouldn't tell you if they did things like that when they were freshmen because they feel that you won't give em a chance.
I guess it is true about many females bein away from home and gettin turned out like that, but then there are the ones who know better when they get there. Even tho most dudes don't look at these females in the same disgust as they did to females in high school who did the same, they still won't be tryin to wife the ones who got flipped freshman year but then changed, unless they just think they are worth it.
As far as clownin the dudes who flipped em...why would we? Dudes don't get clowned for doin things like that, but they will certainly clown you for wifin them up. I am not sayin things should be like that but...they are.
