When I'm talkin go my girls from back home I usually refer to them as whateva nickname we have going or by their last name (like "Miss Jackson cuz ya nasty" or Harpo cuz my other homegirl's last name is Harper). My best friend and I usually call eachother and be like "HEEEEEEEEYYYYYYYYYY BIIIIIIITTTTTCCCCHHHHH" and yeah, you gotta drag it out like that or it doesn't come off right..lol. And of course, the hepha, etc. comes out from time to time if we're fussin'.
BUT for my homegirls that I have met in college, I just call them by some variation of their name cuz they aren't used to that and some females feel disrespected, so you have to be careful. Also, they haven't known me as long as my friends from home (naturally).
Im jus thinkin how in college im going to meet new friends and how i cant call them bytches and ****right off the bat like i could with my old friends...
I definitely feel u on this point b/c as funny as it may sound i'm goin to miss that, just bein like "BYTCH...what the hell are you doin???" I'm goin to miss that b/c you know you have a pretty sound friendship when you can call each other out her name and not take offense...thats some beautiful ****right there... :cry: ...but usually if i'm around someone new the word 'bytch' might be on the tip of my tongue but instead I just say "Gurl, I almost called you out yo name..." when what I really wanted to say was "Bytch, you crazy..."- or somethin to that effect...
We tend to use bytch when we are amongst ourselves...in the dorm room or somewhere exclusive. Never will my friends shout out HEY BYTCH!!! across the room. We tend to shout out each other's nicknames.
We do call each other Stupid or **** outloud though.
Funny because you know how you have selective hearing and usually tune out stuff. Well I've gotten to the point that if I'm somewhere crowded and not expected to hear my name I'll answer to **** or Stupid (depending on the voice)...or Bob (derived from Bobbo...too much Bobby's World so that's my nickname) before I answer to Carlene.
one of my homegurlz is pretty much the ONLY person in the WORLD i talk to like that (& vice-versa)
SHE STARTED IT!!
so i just grew accustomed
when we're on the phone, we don't do it as much as we used to...but mostly now, i just call & am like "hey, little heffer gurl"
lol...she used 2 be like 'shut up'...but now she's like "hey" ****
online tho...it'z no holdz barred...
she'll hit me up on aim like "whassup trick"
i'm like, "nothin hoe"
& we'll just go back & forth 4 like 5 mins. str8 until one of us run out (switchin' from ****...2 skeezer...****...homewrecker...dumb@$$...heffa...etc. etc. etc.)
if anyone heard/saw our convos., they would be like
:lol:
