Do you have one of those relationships where you get along well with your mother...you tell her everything...but your dad...is just DAD
or do you not have a father so your mom is mom and dad...so you're forced to share everything with just mom??!
I am SUCH A DADDY'S GIRL!!! i love our relationship! we do just about everything together...sadly he calls me the son he never had...b/c my brother much rather shop than watch the braves game...and i'd much rather watch the braves game! odd isn't it? we go hiking together and i still sleep on his chest like a lil baby! but that man sure knows how to pounce on that last semi-good nerve i have!
My mom and i(mommy as i refer to her) have really grown closer over the years...not like we've never been close but know that my time in the house is winding down, she's kinda stepping outta the "mother" routine...she's one of my best friends...i tell her errything(just about)..i joke with her telling her that if it wasn't for my brother being born...and i tell her that i'm his fav. person in the house...then she'll call him into the room and argue about it...PURE COMEDY!
Me and my father have an okay relationship...I used to be such a Daddy's girl, he and I used to play basketball together when I was little, we still watch football together when I am home. But as I got older, things became more complicated and I started talking to him less because everything that comes out of his mouth turns into a lecture. Sad to say this, but now that I am away at college, I do not miss him. I miss everyone else except him. I miss his money tho, lol...I think tha world of my father but being a preacher's daughter aint easy at all...God this, God that...something may be wrong wit me but I hold alot of bitterness against him and eventually with time, that will go away.
My mom is my bridge between my father and I. I am alot like she was when she was my age, so she understands me and we are very close. Me being in college means alot to her, because she never got to finish up at Ohio State. So in a way, I am finishing up what she started. My mom knows what is going on even when I don't (but that don't mean she knows everything!) and she's less judgemental than my father is. My mom was the one who told me to chase my dream of going to Hampton and she did everything possible to make that happen...I definitely love her for that...
I get along real well with my mom. I tell her everything.
As far as my dad goes, we talk every now and then on the phone, but that's it. He doesn't live that far away (he lives in VA and my mom lives in FL) , but I've only seen him once since I came up here for school. :?
I get along with both parents...Mom's i tell her most stuff, still alot she don't know about....Dad is just there to pay for my tuition and that's about it....
it alk to my mother now than i ever have because when i was young i was a mommy's girl and then something happened between junior high and now. so i try to talk to her now. my dad i haven't talked to since i was in 1st grade and he lives in Zimbabwe. wish i had a dad to talk to and all that other domestic happiness, but oh well.
oh, & my dad....
before he passed away in '98...we weren't TIGHT TIGHT (b/c I hadn't lived with him the majority of my life)...but we had a good & healthy relationship...& it bothers me a little when i hear people generalize all females who didn't grow up with their fathers directly in the home....saying that had some type of ultimate psychological damage or whateva....
i mean, i could see how that is the case with many females...or kids, period (even if u're talkin' about the mother not having been there)....but not every....
i love both of my parents and both have been good to me throughout my life....
:? ....i think i was adopted...sike idk...my mom and i...well i think our relationship is getting better as im getting older...i dont think we'll ever be tight until im grown (then i can speak my mind and not be told to shut up while shes talking :roll: ) as for the other match to my dna :? :x no comment....im closer to my grandparents mroe than anyone..my grandpa was my father figure and i can tell my grandmother any and everything.
Well my daddy is cool...crazy as hell but cool none the less...I love him to death and his has always been there for me....My mom and I don't have a good relationship at all....I dont even know her...well i do but its like she is a distant aunt not my mom...my aunt is more of my mother than her...my aunt has done so much for me since i was born....my mom has serious issues i know....but i still love her and forgive her for all she has done....and my grandparents....R.I.P Papa--- man that was my partna...but u r still in my heart but my Nana is still alive...funny as ever and the sweetest person u could meet...she would give u the shirt off her back...not without naggin first :lol: ....but my other grandma is cool as hell too she thinks she is 50 or something but i love her to death too....thats it -1LUV
I am very close to both of my parents. I am such a daddy's girl and I talk to him and my mom almost every day. I look around and realize how truly blessed I am to have God fearing parents who instilled those same qualities in me. We weren't always rich financially but we were rich in our beliefs and our sense of family.
