One of my professors is real cool, everyone like’s him—he’s funny, down to earth, cares about his students, etc. He’s not that old for a college professor (probably around 30)—he dresses like us (us meaning students), talks like us, cracks jokes on us and everything else. Thing is, he’s kinda a flirt, and at first I paid him no mind. But him calling me “beautiful” and “sweetie” eventually turned into “my boo” and “love of my life” which a couple of my friends in the class started picking up on too. Amongst other things, he told one of my friends (playfully though) I went out on a date with him and what a great time we had together. I looked at the whole thing as an inside joke until one night, at a campus event, he introduced me as his girlfriend to one of his friends . Afterward he laughed, gave me a hug, and whispered that he was just “messin wit me,” which is why this is confusing. I don’t wanna blow the whole thing outta proportion but who really calls his student his girl in public like that?
Am I overreacting in thinking this is deeper than a joke? Have you ever been in a similar experience, if so how did u handle it? Have you ever dated/ had a relationship with a teacher, or know of anyone who has?
i know right, one of my friend's friends said that a teacher tried to talk to her and she told him off and he started grading her harder, taking off points on her tests for petty stuff, and things like that.
he ain't jokin... he want yo bodaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaay............ he want yo bodaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaay
:lol: :lol: :lol: u a nut
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but yeah, you should be confused, b/c i think he got a thing for you, grant it i've never had a professor hit on me like that, i'd be concerned myself if i was in your shoes... just be careful with it
too tru
2 the poster of the thread - particularly if he just keeps singling U out...
i could see if he made these same extreme references to and/or about other students...but to just single YOU out with this stuff...
yeah...he ain't "just messin"
but like DHam said....just beeeeeeeee carrrrrreful...
i wouldn't try 2 get @ a professor, but whateva floatz ya boat...if u want 2, that's u...but if u DON'T want to....just be careful of certain situations where it's just the two of you...
his "interest" in you might run deeper than u think
*checks 2 see what'z on Lifetime*
SHEEEIIIIT....if the professor looks good, I would surely be using that to my advantage. Ima need that A...if he needs to call me his girl in public and go out on a few dates here and there so be it. I dont see what harm is in that. :arrow:
This is the exact reason I don't teach high school or college anymore :?
Seriously, instructors wooing students in their charge is unethical and can get you removed at many schools, regardless of tenure.
At our U, the line is "Amorous Relationships are forbidden between faculty/staff and the students they evaluate, supervise, or advise."
I'm in my 20s and I maintain very few friendly relationships with undergraduate students, mainly greeks. There is just too much temptation here. And I ain't giving up my comfortable salary for none of these **** lil girls.
:lol: Yeah, that does sound like something they'd have on there. But I do agree with the other posters: Your teacher wants more than a teacher-student relationship.
. Afterward he laughed, gave me a hug, and whispered that he was just “messin wit me,” which is why this is confusing. I don’t wanna blow the whole thing outta proportion but who really calls his student his girl in public like that?
Am I overreacting in thinking this is deeper than a joke? Have you ever been in a similar experience, if so how did u handle it? Have you ever dated/ had a relationship with a teacher, or know of anyone who has?
