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Spinoff: Ladies do you really wanna know the real #? Posted on 12-15-2004

atlprincess
College Park, GA
I was browsing through the fellas forum and someone posed to question about whether or not a guy could accept the number of partners his girl had. Ladies...would ya'll really wanna know the number of girls your man has slept with? I know when my boyfriend told me the number, I was shocked as hell...shoot at first he didn't even want to tell me. I didn't judge him from that, but I was like damn...thats a lot of girls.
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1FocusedBruh replied on 12-17-2004 07:44PM [Reply]
What if the guy told you a large number like 36. Would he be dismissed?
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Focused247 from San Dimas, CA replied on 12-17-2004 08:04PM [Reply]
1LazyNigga63 wrote:
What if the guy told you a large number like 36. Would he be dismissed?
Hell yea, he gone.. But to answer the first question; YES i would want to know. It says alot about the person. Being that I'm the type to get attached I cant be dealin with no dude who been around the block and back.
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ClassyWisdom08 replied on 12-17-2004 08:44PM [Reply]
Focused247 wrote:
1LazyNigga63 wrote:
What if the guy told you a large number like 36. Would he be dismissed?
Hell yea, he gone.. But to answer the first question; YES i would want to know. It says alot about the person. Being that I'm the type to get attached I cant be dealin with no dude who been around the block and back.
Exactly!!!! Thats vital info when it comes to relationships and could make or break it.
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atlprincess from College Park, GA replied on 12-18-2004 03:12PM [Reply]

1LazyNigga63 wrote:
What if the guy told you a large number like 36. Would he be dismissed?
My byofriend told me a higher number than that. At first, I was reallu questioning being with him, but I can't judge him for the thing he did in his past...especially now that he has changed. I mean I am sure there are a lot of people who have skeletons in their closets and don't want to be judged for them.
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In Rod We Trust replied on 12-18-2004 06:54PM [Reply]
atlprincess wrote:
1LazyNigga63 wrote:
What if the guy told you a large number like 36. Would he be dismissed?
My byofriend told me a higher number than that. At first, I was reallu questioning being with him, but I can't judge him for the thing he did in his past...especially now that he has changed. I mean I am sure there are a lot of people who have skeletons in their closets and don't want to be judged for them.
That nig a hoe
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atlprincess from College Park, GA replied on 12-18-2004 07:38PM [Reply]

Da_Rodfather wrote:
atlprincess wrote:
1LazyNigga63 wrote:
What if the guy told you a large number like 36. Would he be dismissed?
My byofriend told me a higher number than that. At first, I was reallu questioning being with him, but I can't judge him for the thing he did in his past...especially now that he has changed. I mean I am sure there are a lot of people who have skeletons in their closets and don't want to be judged for them.
That nig a hoe
Aww leave my baby alone. He's not even like that anymore...trust if he was then I wouldn't be with him.
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In Rod We Trust replied on 12-19-2004 06:52PM [Reply]
atlprincess wrote:
Da_Rodfather wrote:
atlprincess wrote:
1LazyNigga63 wrote:
What if the guy told you a large number like 36. Would he be dismissed?
My byofriend told me a higher number than that. At first, I was reallu questioning being with him, but I can't judge him for the thing he did in his past...especially now that he has changed. I mean I am sure there are a lot of people who have skeletons in their closets and don't want to be judged for them.
That nig a hoe
Aww leave my baby alone. He's not even like that anymore...trust if he was then I wouldn't be with him.
Once a hoe always a hoe.... Cant turn a hoe into a housewife/husband....
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atlprincess from College Park, GA replied on 12-19-2004 06:57PM [Reply]

Da_Rodfather wrote:
atlprincess wrote:
Da_Rodfather wrote:
atlprincess wrote:
1LazyNigga63 wrote:
What if the guy told you a large number like 36. Would he be dismissed?
My byofriend told me a higher number than that. At first, I was reallu questioning being with him, but I can't judge him for the thing he did in his past...especially now that he has changed. I mean I am sure there are a lot of people who have skeletons in their closets and don't want to be judged for them.
That nig a hoe
Aww leave my baby alone. He's not even like that anymore...trust if he was then I wouldn't be with him.
Once a hoe always a hoe.... Cant turn a hoe into a housewife/husband....
I totally understand that, shoot when he told me I was absolutely surprised. But my thing is, why judge him for things he did in his past? I mean if he was still a dog and going around sleeping with females then I would not be interested in dating him. He hasn't done that in a while and he has truly changed. I am sure there are some things you have done in your past that you don't want people to hold against you.
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Blutifully Human from Washington, DC replied on 12-19-2004 10:52PM [Reply]

atlprincess wrote:
Da_Rodfather wrote:
atlprincess wrote:
Da_Rodfather wrote:
atlprincess wrote:
1LazyNigga63 wrote:
What if the guy told you a large number like 36. Would he be dismissed?
My byofriend told me a higher number than that. At first, I was reallu questioning being with him, but I can't judge him for the thing he did in his past...especially now that he has changed. I mean I am sure there are a lot of people who have skeletons in their closets and don't want to be judged for them.
That nig a hoe
Aww leave my baby alone. He's not even like that anymore...trust if he was then I wouldn't be with him.
Once a hoe always a hoe.... Cant turn a hoe into a housewife/husband....
I totally understand that, shoot when he told me I was absolutely surprised. But my thing is, why judge him for things he did in his past? I mean if he was still a dog and going around sleeping with females then I would not be interested in dating him. He hasn't done that in a while and he has truly changed. I am sure there are some things you have done in your past that you don't want people to hold against you.
EXACTLY. We ALL have skeletons. But if everyone approached a relationship by simply picking at the mistakes, that wouldn't leave room to enjoy the positives. If her boo was proud of it, and was still glorifying that lifestyle, then that's another issue. But if he has made an effort to change then he shouldn't be judged. No one is perfect, and if ya name ain't Jesus...then who cares anyway? That's how i look at it.
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atlprincess from College Park, GA replied on 12-19-2004 11:52PM [Reply]

*PURE*Kindnezz wrote:
atlprincess wrote:
Da_Rodfather wrote:
atlprincess wrote:
Da_Rodfather wrote:
atlprincess wrote:
1LazyNigga63 wrote:
What if the guy told you a large number like 36. Would he be dismissed?
My byofriend told me a higher number than that. At first, I was reallu questioning being with him, but I can't judge him for the thing he did in his past...especially now that he has changed. I mean I am sure there are a lot of people who have skeletons in their closets and don't want to be judged for them.
That nig a hoe
Aww leave my baby alone. He's not even like that anymore...trust if he was then I wouldn't be with him.
Once a hoe always a hoe.... Cant turn a hoe into a housewife/husband....
I totally understand that, shoot when he told me I was absolutely surprised. But my thing is, why judge him for things he did in his past? I mean if he was still a dog and going around sleeping with females then I would not be interested in dating him. He hasn't done that in a while and he has truly changed. I am sure there are some things you have done in your past that you don't want people to hold against you.
EXACTLY. We ALL have skeletons. But if everyone approached a relationship by simply picking at the mistakes, that wouldn't leave room to enjoy the positives. If her boo was proud of it, and was still glorifying that lifestyle, then that's another issue. But if he has made an effort to change then he shouldn't be judged. No one is perfect, and if ya name ain't Jesus...then who cares anyway? That's how i look at it.
My point exactly...at least someone else understands.
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