CATER 2 U

33 replies · 9468 views · Started by Kinkee · Jan 2005

Kinkee

I am sure some of you have heard this song by Destiny's Child. If you haven't basically the song about how she/they would take care of their man. So my question is...would do the same for your man? Or are your feelings not that deep or strong enuff to show how much you care about them?

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Shell813 · Jan 2005

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Lady_ J wrote:
I dont mind doing for my man, but the word " cater " it just sounds like Ima be on hand and feet for him all the time and that definitely wont be the case. The word cater just doesnt sit well with me.

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AggieSweetie07 · Jan 2005

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I definitely would have no problem catering to my man and keeping him happy. But I think there is a fine line between catering to a man and becoming submissive to a man. As long as you can tell the difference and don't become this woman who is submissive, then yea I'm all for it....I'm going to take care of my man, because if I'm not doing it, then there is a scheming female out there who is ready and willing to do my job. On the other hand, I feel it goes both ways. My man must also be willing to cater to me....

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boygimmedat from South Orange, NJ · Jan 2005

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I (will/do) cater to my man on occasion, because (he will do/he does) the same for me.... To say that you won't ever cater to someone you supposedly LOVE is selfish and arrogant. I don't have a problem with that song because she says "...this is your day" meaning she probably doesn't do that ish on the regular...

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· Jan 2005

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atlprincess wrote:
I definitely would have no problem catering to my man and keeping him happy. But I think there is a fine line between catering to a man and becoming submissive to a man. As long as you can tell the difference and don't become this woman who is submissive, then yea I'm all for it....I'm going to take care of my man, because if I'm not doing it, then there is a scheming female out there who is ready and willing to do my job. On the other hand, I feel it goes both ways. My man must also be willing to cater to me....

That's exactly how I feel.

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· Jan 2005

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i think that's one of the ways you keep a healthy relationship...i used to cater to my ex...like back rubs after a football or baseball game...he used to carry my bags after a marching band exhibition, cross country meet, basketball game, track meet(damn that's alot! :lol: )but we always tried to meet each other halfway...hell i even cooked for him from time to time just for the hell of it

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In Rod We Trust · Jan 2005

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AggieSweetie07 wrote:
atlprincess wrote:
I definitely would have no problem catering to my man and keeping him happy. But I think there is a fine line between catering to a man and becoming submissive to a man. As long as you can tell the difference and don't become this woman who is submissive, then yea I'm all for it....I'm going to take care of my man, because if I'm not doing it, then there is a scheming female out there who is ready and willing to do my job. On the other hand, I feel it goes both ways. My man must also be willing to cater to me....
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concur....................

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· Jan 2005

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atlprincess wrote:
My man must also be willing to cater to me....

Exactly!

Lady_J wrote:
they go from being some " Survivors " and " Independent Women " to being caterers and wanting thugged out soldiers...Destiny's Child is a fukkin trip.

:lol: I thought the same thing after listening to that song.

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Kinkee · Jan 2005

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Tiptoes8705 wrote:
i think that's one of the ways you keep a healthy relationship...i used to cater to my ex...like back rubs after a football or baseball game...he used to carry my bags after a marching band exhibition, cross country meet, basketball game, track meet(damn that's alot! :lol: )but we always tried to meet each other halfway...hell i even cooked for him from time to time just for the hell of it

Aww Tippy. You are doing it up aren't cha? LOL

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Focused247 from San Dimas, CA · Jan 2005

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Cater 2 U? hmm.. lol I'll do some ish for em. A lot. But I'm not washin your clothes or cleaning up after you or anything of that nature. I guess its cuz my mom never did it for my dad. He handled his. But i'll cook for my man, massage him down, and some other stuff :wink:

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JsGyrl1110 · Jan 2005

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jstblz99-2h2h wrote:
AggieSweetie07 wrote:
atlprincess wrote:
I definitely would have no problem catering to my man and keeping him happy. But I think there is a fine line between catering to a man and becoming submissive to a man. As long as you can tell the difference and don't become this woman who is submissive, then yea I'm all for it....I'm going to take care of my man, because if I'm not doing it, then there is a scheming female out there who is ready and willing to do my job. On the other hand, I feel it goes both ways. My man must also be willing to cater to me....
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concur....................

doube concur....just a little difference of a opinion....I think that yes there are females out there who will do what you want but if your man is a real man he knows the difference between you and a trifling woman (I wouold hope) and so do everything that you do because you want to not because of what some other female may do. Other than that...girl u r on point Tongue out