why are girls so mean to eachother?
this is where this question comes from. I am currently a highschool senior. I have been to 3 different highschools in the 4 year period. my 9th grade year i lived outside of sacramento. i first had that "new girl" status( you know when guys are curios because its a new girl so they race to see who can get at her first). along the way mayeb the first day of school i dont know when it began there was always a few girls who hated me. i was quiet at first until i got more comfortable. ther was always some girl who wanted to fight me over some boy that i didnt even know existed. along the waay i managed to make 1 good friend that i could actually trust. i literally felt like i was thrown in a tank full of Piranhas. the piranha being the random girl saying things about me or wanting to beat me up. or the boys trying to get into my pants. so my 9th grade year i got really good grades because i just focused on school. wasnt to worried about kickin it.
sophomore and jr year move back to seattle. went to a new school. Never got into any problems that i didnt get myself into. I made a few faulty friends, but then i learned the way of my errors. was involved in varsity cheer and volleyball. i made some good friends and i met someone that i love alot and am currently still with.
Here i am senior year living in Arizona. I live in a small town with a not so big black population(just enough to get by). Mostly Mexican Americans and Whites. I had that "new girl status" agian. people had heard about me before i kenw abou them. decided im gonna keep to myself and only speak with those who engage in conversation with me. maybe that will keep me out of the horrible year i had in the 9th grade. I was **** wrong. although no one threatens to beat me up this one particular group of girls cant stand me. they are all african american. why?! those are suppose to be the ones who understand me the most. they constantly talk about me because i end up hearing about it through random underclassmen who happen to be sittin by them in that particular class. or i'll hear it from the african american boys. i havent said a negative thing about anyone at school. i played volleyball and was mvp and captain. Im involved in DECA( a nation wide sales and marketing club), im taking college classes as a senior. overal i am involved in many school functions. i think i have my head on straight especially when it comes to my goals in life. i dont sleep around(cuz u know thats when girls really start to talkin). i am respectful to all of those whof are respectful to me. Which is bassically everyone who has spoken words with me. i try not to let it get to me and i say "ok your going to graduate this year and you will never see these people again". i know this may sound like stupid highschool stuff but to me its more than that. its difficult when you have no1 on your side. and the people that u wouldnt expect these action from are the only ones doing it. its really starting to get to me, they dont know me or what im about. so why do they do it?! is there something that i am missing or dont understand? please tell me that when i go to college this will not happen to me once again.
notice when guys have problems they fight and after they fight most of the time its squashed. girls carry this undying hate.. why?
I dont know about all that, not bein able to trust any females, but I know that I got a few girls down here that act funny style towards me for no reason but I havent ever really had any problems with any females til now....
But I think you should look at yourself from the outside. I know this girl who went to high school with me that no one could stand. She swore up and down that everybody was hatin on her, but in all actuality she wasnt a very likable person. She always bragged, she was flirtin with other girls bfs, overdramatic, self-centered. JUST PLAIN IRRITATING. I usually get along with everyone, but not her. And she always victimized herself, blamin everybody else.
Basically what Im sayin is make sure you arent supplying these girls with a reason not to like you. I mean be yourself, but just look at your situation from an outsider's perspective.
But then again there are cases where girls can just decide they dont like you for no apparent reason. I have a lil situation like that down here.
girls sometimes have a tendency to hate. I don't know. I have moved 3 times in my hs career too and I can definitely understand where your coming from.
I always say don't hate me cause I'm pretty, or smarter, or more athletic than you:: hate me for my actions
Black peopla tend not to be very accepting. My experiences show that white people warm up to you before black people do. But once your there for a while Black people will open up.
There was this girl that moved to my highschool when I was in the 10th grade. Almost EVERY GIRL HATED HER! After taking a class with her, I realized that she was a really sweet person. Girls were just intimidated by her because of her looks, and they didn't even care about her personality. Like asugrl06 said before: girls r crazy period. :?
some girls will rather see there other girls hanging their heads or just scared to speak up for themselves rather than to admit they like something that hat person has or is jealous of that person. the more they feel as though their gaining something by constantly saying something to or about that person, the better they feel. just don't let that stuff get to me. think like this, they must wanna be you or just love to hear ya name as much as they talk about you.
That's exactly why I have my select few TRUE female friends and leave the rest alone. I dont have time for all the drama, rumors, gossip, and BS they like to go through. :roll:
