would you tell? I wanted to take an opinion poll to see what most people would do. Feel free to elaborate if you want. does it depend on how long you two have been together?
i'd never cheat... and if i did, i'd tell.... i'd have too much guilt... it would also test to see how much of a bond we would have if she'd believe me or up and leave me... b/c we only humans... we make mistakes... (feelin a few 21 ?'s line)
If I cheat...I probably didnt care that much in the 1st place..
cosigns. If I am really feeling the person I'm with, have feelings and what not, I won't end up cheating. If I do cheat, then the relationship isn't that valuable to me and I probably won't be in the relationship in the first place.
My mom always tells me that it's some things thats you should just take to the grave and cheating on your boyfriend/girlfriend is one of those things. I don't care how guilty I might feel..I would still keep it in the dark. I also know that everything you do in the dark comes out into the light eventually...but until that times comes, nobody will know except me and the other guy.