Ladies: Why do ya want dudes who are older. Not like 1 yo 2 years but like 5 or more? I mean like when ya were 14 and 15 ya thought havin a boyfriend over 20 was cool. Ya do realize that dude was probably a loser in the eyes of his peers. Oh yea if your brother who was 20 was messin with a 15 or 16 year old what would u think?
Fellas: Why the fukk would ya mess wit a young **** chick? Im talkin bout 14 and 15? Cuz I mean these young **** girls out in this world wouldnt be tryin to get this old head dudes if the dudes wasnt givin em play. If you lil 15 year old sister was messin wit a 20 year old dude what would u think?
one or two years older is fine...the same age is even fine....but i can NOT stand when a dude is younger than me....it just bothers me....even if its six months...it bothers me :?
but okay...to directly address the question....
from my observation....when it comes to older dudes & younger girls.....from the dude's perspective....a lot of times...it does seem like it's a "control" thing.....just like what many Black females think about White females when it comes to the Black man....it appears as if (or even, naturally...) a female of that young age will put up with a whole lot more than one of the guy's own age or around it....
she won't ask questions....if any at all....and sometimes, perhaps, that's what they count on...
now that isn't always the case....just seems to be the case a lot of the time....to me...
and from the girl's perspective....i mean, there are different circumstances....but i'll just hypothetically speak of the situation of a girl being 16 & the guy being like 21 or 22....
well....it has been scientically-proven....that females, FOR THE MOST PART, age (mentally) 3 (or 4 or 5?) years ahead of males....
or in other words...pretty much....the maturity of a 16-year-old female...is almost equivalent to that of a 20 or 21-year-old male lol (hey - this ain't me? this is science 8))
& once the girl becomes 20....her maturity level is not equivalent to her 20-year-old male counterpart....his is still on the mind of a 16-year-old, lol....but instead, hers is with a 25-year-old male....
if that makes sense....
and it brings forth light to a LOT of things 4 me, lol
....of course, that isn't always the case....u're going to have many exceptions.....but many times, man, i swear it is so obvious....when i was 18, talking to the 22-year-old...i could notice such SIGNIFICANT difference in how he spoke and THOUGHT...in comparison to a guy who was 18 or 19, like me....HUGE difference....
he was so much more level-headed....& grounded...and FOCUSED....& conscious about a lot of things....and pass the trivial....
and that just amazed me so much....
but the drawback to that is he's probably like that because he's experienced a lot more of life than, say, 18-year-olds.....and his experiences have caused him to be like that (finally become a man)....so it can sort of be intimidating....to a certain extent...
but....i don't know - i could never go pass 5 years above...well i can't really speak on what i couldn't do....but my preference is to stay within the boundaries of no older than 5 years...no younger than 1 year...
just playing devil's advocate....based on little experience...and MuCh observation...
^^^i mean...i really have it bad...this one guy was only like two months younger than me and i couldnt talk to them....everytime i ask a guy how old he is and he says the same age as me im like, "when's ur birthday".... :? ...and dont let them be younger than me and a grade lower....dont even be the same age as me or older than me and a grade lower....maybe im too picky :?
Ladies: Why do ya want dudes who are older. Not like 1 yo 2 years but like 5 or more? I mean like when ya were 14 and 15 ya thought havin a boyfriend over 20 was cool. Ya do realize that dude was probably a loser in the eyes of his peers. Oh yea if your brother who was 20 was messin with a 15 or 16 year old what would u think?
Fellas: Why the fukk would ya mess wit a young **** chick? Im talkin bout 14 and 15? Cuz I mean these young **** girls out in this world wouldnt be tryin to get this old head dudes if the dudes wasnt givin em play. If you lil 15 year old sister was messin wit a 20 year old dude what would u think?
the females are looking for a daddy...
the dudes are desperate and can't egt n e body thier own age...
which i don't get...it's not that hard to manipulate a woman between the ages of 18 and 25...from what i've observed in this world, they're just like 14 year old chicks except they know a few more words...you know speak articulate n sh!t...(tasia)
^^^i mean...i really have it bad...this one guy was only like two months younger than me and i couldnt talk to them....everytime i ask a guy how old he is and he says the same age as me im like, "when's ur birthday".... :? ...and dont let them be younger than me and a grade lower....dont even be the same age as me or older than me and a grade lower....maybe im too picky :?
lol yes...maybe....
and i was the same way....if i found out he were my age, i'd ask when his birthday was....
i still do that, but now it's just to have an idea of who's older...not that it really matters anymore - i'm just curious....and of course, also to just have knowledge of the date of their birthday....
but yeah, girl...you need 2 lighten up, lol...your soulmate might be a half-year younger than you...and u'll neevvaa knoow...with that fixed philosophy!
Ladies: Why do ya want dudes who are older. Not like 1 yo 2 years but like 5 or more? I mean like when ya were 14 and 15 ya thought havin a boyfriend over 20 was cool. Ya do realize that dude was probably a loser in the eyes of his peers. Oh yea if your brother who was 20 was messin with a 15 or 16 year old what would u think?
Fellas: Why the fukk would ya mess wit a young **** chick? Im talkin bout 14 and 15? Cuz I mean these young **** girls out in this world wouldnt be tryin to get this old head dudes if the dudes wasnt givin em play. If you lil 15 year old sister was messin wit a 20 year old dude what would u think?
the females are looking for a daddy...
the dudes are desperate and can't egt n e body thier own age...
which i don't get...it's not that hard to manipulate a woman between the ages of 18 and 25...from what i've observed in this world, they're just like 14 year old chicks except they know a few more words...you know speak articulate n sh!t...(tasia)
umm, first off when i am dating a older guy, i am not looking for a daddy........i believe i already have one.
secondly, what you observe (which is probably not even 1% of the world) may not be the actual reality. it's more of your perception which is probably f*cked up anyway....
Ladies: Why do ya want dudes who are older. Not like 1 yo 2 years but like 5 or more? I mean like when ya were 14 and 15 ya thought havin a boyfriend over 20 was cool. Ya do realize that dude was probably a loser in the eyes of his peers. Oh yea if your brother who was 20 was messin with a 15 or 16 year old what would u think?
Fellas: Why the fukk would ya mess wit a young **** chick? Im talkin bout 14 and 15? Cuz I mean these young **** girls out in this world wouldnt be tryin to get this old head dudes if the dudes wasnt givin em play. If you lil 15 year old sister was messin wit a 20 year old dude what would u think?
the females are looking for a daddy...
the dudes are desperate and can't egt n e body thier own age...
which i don't get...it's not that hard to manipulate a woman between the ages of 18 and 25...from what i've observed in this world, they're just like 14 year old chicks except they know a few more words...you know speak articulate n sh!t...(tasia)
umm, first off when i am dating a older guy, i am not looking for a daddy........i believe i already have one.
secondly, what you observe (which is probably not even 1% of the world) may not be the actual reality. it's more of your perception which is probably f*cked up anyway....
lol (hey - this ain't me? this is science 8))
& once the girl becomes 20....her maturity level is not equivalent to her 20-year-old male counterpart....his is still on the mind of a 16-year-old, lol....but instead, hers is with a 25-year-old male....
if that makes sense....
and it brings forth light to a LOT of things 4 me, lol
....of course, that isn't always the case....u're going to have many exceptions.....but many times, man, i swear it is so obvious....when i was 18, talking to the 22-year-old...i could notice such SIGNIFICANT difference in how he spoke and THOUGHT...in comparison to a guy who was 18 or 19, like me....HUGE difference....
he was so much more level-headed....& grounded...and FOCUSED....& conscious about a lot of things....and pass the trivial....
and that just amazed me so much....
but the drawback to that is he's probably like that because he's experienced a lot more of life than, say, 18-year-olds.....and his experiences have caused him to be like that (finally become a man)....so it can sort of be intimidating....to a certain extent...
but....i don't know - i could never go pass 5 years above...well i can't really speak on what i couldn't do....but my preference is to stay within the boundaries of no older than 5 years...no younger than 1 year...
just playing devil's advocate....based on little experience...and MuCh observation...
