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so fellas, why do we treat them so bad? Posted on 03-30-2005
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aight man, here's my take on why women these days get treated like crap.. it's about 90% their own dayum fault...we don't repect them because they don't repect themselves... they don't repect thier bodies, the way they dress, the way they behave, ect ect... so why would i repect someone who doesn't repect themselves? the women of the 50s didn't have yalls problems, and i wonder why... stop trying to sag and be "a n!gga" and be a lady...we don't repect **** and hoes, but any wild man wouldn't dare to hurt a classy chick....you ever notice how the goody good girls aren't prayed upon by thugs? it's not that they don't find them attractive, it's more because they don't want to "even hurt dat gurl, ya dig?"...classy girls are the "untouchables"... ladies, up ya class game and you'll get men to repect you more...we don't repsect gurls based upon thier thuggish, hoeish repatations...
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ClassyWisdom08 replied on 03-30-2005 02:40PM [Reply]
MeganJerai wrote:
So what you're saying is...men should continue to disrespect women who disrespect themselves? Wouldn't the best thing to do is, be the bigger person? Two wrongs don't make a right. If it keeps being "tift for taft" nothing will ever change. And I bet you they're are more classy women getting disrespected.
The best thing i've heard all day!!!! Your comments are not only one point but they are true. But people never take responsibility for their actions. They will continue to blame others for something that they did.
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replied on 03-30-2005 02:40PM [Reply]
demmeri wrote:
men usually don't disrepect the classy chicks...
Lol. Where you live at?
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replied on 03-30-2005 05:11PM [Reply]
damn. i'm sure yall already know how i feel about subjects like this. some men just so funny. "she act like a hoe i'm going to treat her like a hoe"??? that's some bull for real. some men are so hilarious. but seriously, megan said all that needs to be said so i'm out...
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Imaginelyfe06 replied on 03-30-2005 06:45PM [Reply]
MissJazzyAKA wrote:
MeganJerai wrote:
So what you're saying is...men should continue to disrespect women who disrespect themselves? Wouldn't the best thing to do is, be the bigger person? Two wrongs don't make a right. If it keeps being "tift for taft" nothing will ever change. And I bet you they're are more classy women getting disrespected.
The best thing i've heard all day!!!! Your comments are not only one point but they are true. But people never take responsibility for their actions. They will continue to blame others for something that they did.
Cosigns
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ClassyWisdom08 replied on 03-30-2005 07:55PM [Reply]
Females obviously do things for the attention of males. I mean they aren't doing it to please themselves or to have other females look at them. They are looking for love and the right attention but they seem to just settle for whats convenient, just to fill that void. Question to guys: Why not pull that female aside and let her know that she doesn't have to do those things to get attention?? I think it would be more effective, seeing as how most of them live for what yall say , anyway.
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MidWestGentleman from Detroit, MI replied on 03-30-2005 08:01PM [Reply]

MissJazzyAKA wrote:
Females obviously do things for the attention of males. I mean they aren't doing it to please themselves or to have other females look at them. They are looking for love and the right attention but they seem to just settle for whats convenient, just to fill that void. Question to guys: Why not pull that female aside and let her know that she doesn't have to do those things to get attention?? I think it would be more effective, seeing as how most of them live for what yall say , anyway.
i think most females would look at me like i was crazy or try to cuss me out or somethin esp if shes with her "girls" or whatever....esp some of these ghetto a$$ girls out here...
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Hahaha replied on 03-30-2005 08:13PM [Reply]
MidWestGentleman wrote:
MissJazzyAKA wrote:
Females obviously do things for the attention of males. I mean they aren't doing it to please themselves or to have other females look at them. They are looking for love and the right attention but they seem to just settle for whats convenient, just to fill that void. Question to guys: Why not pull that female aside and let her know that she doesn't have to do those things to get attention?? I think it would be more effective, seeing as how most of them live for what yall say , anyway.
i think most females would look at me like i was crazy or try to cuss me out or somethin esp if shes with her "girls" or whatever....esp some of these ghetto a$$ girls out here...
cosign... i'd have to drop a "b" **** in that situation...yeah but i never thought of doing that... little sister can you find another way? no more living life behind the shadows little sister can we find another way? no more living life behind... the shadows...8-)
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IgnoranceIsBliss from Dallas, TX replied on 03-30-2005 08:23PM [Reply]

Psychologically, the way people treat us or have treated us can affect our lives and the way we act. For example, if you were abused as a child by a parent and that might have something to do with the way you behave or act socially. But ultimately, it's you that controls your life and how you choose to live it.
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replied on 03-31-2005 12:50PM [Reply]
demmeri wrote:
aight man, here's my take on why women these days get treated like crap.. it's about 90% their own dayum fault...we don't repect them because they don't repect themselves... they don't repect thier bodies, the way they dress, the way they behave, ect ect... so why would i repect someone who doesn't repect themselves? the women of the 50s didn't have yalls problems, and i wonder why...
So u say its almost all our fault...wrong!! We have the right to dress and act anyway we feel. Just because its not what u want, then we disrespect ourselves? If I choose to walk down the street with a mini skirt on, then so be it. That doesnt give any guy the right to call me a ho or ****, because they dont know me. Your makin assumptions about women u dont even know! Example: If u saw my sister, u might classify her as a "ho because she likes to wear short skirts and what not. But what u dont know is that she's a virgin, holdin down two jobs and workin on her Ph.d. So dont assume things cuz when u do u make an **** out of yourself.
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Hahaha replied on 03-31-2005 03:52PM [Reply]
^^naw i wouldn't repecet her because of the way she carries herself... 8-) (nessa)
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