Confused females

31 replies · 5142 views · Started by QUAlity · Mar 2005

QUAlity

she could have lost interest in u b/c i was in that same situation, but i lost interest in my friend and we have a really cool friendship now.

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P o e t i q R e i g n from Greensboro, NC · Mar 2005

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QUAlity wrote:
TheWire wrote:
QUAlity wrote:
This heffa said "You can't afford to buy groceries, how could you afford to come to MD." So I told her you can't be serious.
No sir... -smh- I think i woulda lost my temper if she'd said that to me :x -controls his inner Ike Turner-

I was so heated when she said that. But you know I try to stay cool and collective. She still wants to be friends. I'ma dog her ****, I'ma use her for everything she got.

. . . **wishes i could get on aim right now :x** oh well :-(...just know i'm cussin' u out in spirit Wink

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ClassyWisdom08 · Mar 2005

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P o e t i q R e i g n wrote:
QUAlity wrote:
TheWire wrote:
QUAlity wrote:
This heffa said "You can't afford to buy groceries, how could you afford to come to MD." So I told her you can't be serious.
No sir... -smh- I think i woulda lost my temper if she'd said that to me :x -controls his inner Ike Turner-
I was so heated when she said that. But you know I try to stay cool and collective. She still wants to be friends. I'ma dog her ****, I'ma use her for everything she got.

. . . **wishes i could get on aim right now :x** oh well :-(...just know i'm cussin' u out in spirit Wink

Ya know...I don't understand black folk. And this is how guys act when you turn them down. Throwing fits will get you no where.

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Thoroughly_Confused · Mar 2005

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chances are that she maybe was in i for the chase. Sometimes people just want what they can't have..and once you get it, you lose interest

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· Mar 2005

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QUAlity wrote:
This heffa said "You can't afford to buy groceries, how could you afford to come to MD."

:lol: I'm sorry but that was funny.

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· Mar 2005

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I understand da way u feel Qua. I was in da same situation, and ta say don't worry about it, cuz the girl will be back is crazy (fa da most part). Somebody told me dat the guy would come back after he got wut he wanted from da his girl, but it aint work. Plus if he did wanna come back, I wouldn't let him cuz he hurt me too much. Juss find somebody else, but always remember and live by the golden rule: "Do unto others as u would want them to do unto u."

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cafe-aulait · Mar 2005

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You shouldnt have been playin games first semester then yall could have established a relationship... I bet you will act on your emotions sooner next time, and won't procrastinate... I dont see anything wrong with what she said. She was bein honest. Yall say you like forward girls, then when a female's forward you can't handle it.. :???:

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· Mar 2005

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That comment isn't even honest tho. That's just rude. If a dude trying to say he wants to have a long-distance relationship w/ you, how she going come back at him and basically say, "No, cuz you're poor." :???:

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ClassyWisdom08 · Mar 2005

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TheWire wrote:
That comment isn't even honest tho. That's just rude. If a dude trying to say he wants to have a long-distance relationship w/ you, how she going come back at him and basically say, "No, cuz you're poor." :???:

And thats not being honest??? If thats how she truely feels than it is as honest as it gets...Sorry, that her comment doesnt stroke the male ego.

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cafe-aulait · Mar 2005

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TheWire wrote:
she going come back at him and basically say, "No, cuz you're poor." :???:

No she's saying "How are you goin to have money to visit me if you don't have money for groceries?" And that's a valid question. She is being realistic. She's tryna watch her back.

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La · Mar 2005

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cafe-aulait wrote:
TheWire wrote:
she going come back at him and basically say, "No, cuz you're poor." :???:
No she's saying "How are you goin to have money to visit me if you don't have money for groceries?"

No...but she didnt say it that way. Thats what makes the difference. She was rude about it and needs to learn some tact. I dont know...I prolly wouldnt cared if she made a smart **** comment about something else, but you dont make slick **** comments about peoples financial situations...thats rude and hurtful. I guess I feel that way cause Ive been so blessed as to where Im not struggling but I see how alot of my friends do struggle...and I wouldnt dare come out and make that kinda comment to them, or anyone else for that matter, cause you never know when you may not be able to afford some groceries.

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