aight ladies...
lemme let yall in on a little secret...no man likes rejection...it doesn't matter if he's the ugliest man in the world, or denzel washington.....rejection s#cks some donley dongs...
lemme tell yall something that recently happened to me...
aight i was on my way home riding the bus....when i got on, there was a nice quiet looking chick sitting up front...she was about 5'1 looked to be like 130...little chubby but it was all good...so i cruised to the back cause that's my chill spot...
so we ride downtown to the station where everybody transfers....and it just so happen that me and this chick were going to be getting on the same bus again...so she gets on the bus first, and instead of sitting in the front, she goes alll the way to the back...i was surprised because usually chicks (especially small ones) are afraid to ride in the back because of all the crackheads...but it was just me, her and 4 other people on board so it was all good...so of course i go all the way to the back in the seat across from her because that's where i was gonna sit anyway...so why change up when there's a cute chick back there? i think she had an idea i was going back there...
so anyways, we exchanged akward glances for a ****...i just didn't really know if i wanted to holla
welp there was a crackhead sitting in front of us that was singing along to the radio all loud...we were listening to light 96 so he was singing Forever Young by rod stewart and it was funny as hell....then when that n1gga got off the bus, he was like "man, f#ck all you ****...yall n!ggas smell like some sh!t...." and then everybody was like "ooookay..."
so anyways, this served as an ice breaker, because we just started talking to eachother about how funny that sh!t was....so i dunno i finally got the courage to ask the chick for her number...she gave it to me quick as she got up cause her stop was up...and i was surprised cause she let me have it! i was feeling happy as hell riding home that night...
i was also **** as hell because i had a **** :grin:
but anyways, ladies, do you see how she gave me a sign? first by comming back there to sit with me, next with the glances...
ladies, what i'm trying to say here, is that if it's okay for us to holler at you, let us know...i know that we're suppose to be the ones on persuit, but please let us know if it's okay...
it's like airplanes landing on an airstrip....ladies, turn the lights on for us to let us know if it's safe to land...give us a little glance..."mistakenly" end up sitting by us...you know what i mean
cause all fellas fear rejection cause that sh!t don't feel good, i don' care who he is...
and it works in the opposite too....if you don't like us, then don't give us any hints...pleae don't be a d!ck teaser...if you don't like us, frown at us when we look at you...please don't confuse us...
aight, i'm done... 8-) (nessa)
Hmmm...sometimes ya'll fellas don't catch on to the signs and ya'll miss out on a good thing....what's up wit that???
Girl yes! You can be at a party, dudes will watch you all night, you will : smile at him, wink at him, dance while lookin in his direction, then "just so happen" to walk by him like 50 times, and he will still not catch it. I mean, dang, do we gotta fall in yall's lap?
Lol. I've been guilty of that on quite a few occasions :?
Hmmm...sometimes ya'll fellas don't catch on to the signs and ya'll miss out on a good thing....what's up wit that???
Girl yes! You can be at a party, dudes will watch you all night, you will : smile at him, wink at him, dance while lookin in his direction, then "just so happen" to walk by him like 50 times, and he will still not catch it. I mean, dang, do we gotta fall in yall's lap?
Lol. I've been guilty of that on quite a few occasions :?
Thats why I've only had one boyfriend in my life. I coulda had at lease like 15 men would CATCH THE HINT.
Sometimes we men just don't catch the hints. I JUST found out that on our FAMU campus tour I was on during Spring Break on Apr 4-5, that there were these 3 females from different high schools that were on the trip that wanted to talk to me. They were all pretty cute too. I was like ARE U SERIOUS what was I thinking. The person who told me was like they gave some hints, just didn't catch on. This has happened to me to many times. :sad:
...or how about the signals arent clear enough or you wanna play games...situation with me las year...i come on the golf team for my first year and its this fine girl on the womens team...shes a junior(senior now) and i introduced myself because she was also in one of my classes...now we go on golf trips and whatnot and havnt really shown any real interest in her up to this point...i mean she was the girl that everyody wanted to talk to on the golf team but i wasnt really gonna make any moves...now during these golf trips, shes winkin at me smiling and whatnot, and i caught her just staring at me multiple times...so im like alright these are the so called "signals" that you women use...so i decide to step and ask her for her number and she says flat out no...wtf??now clearly there is a problem here....truth is a lot of yall females like to play these little games that i dont have time for.....
...or how about the signals arent clear enough or you wanna play games...situation with me las year...i come on the golf team for my first year and its this fine girl on the womens team...shes a junior(senior now) and i introduced myself because she was also in one of my classes...now we go on golf trips and whatnot and havnt really shown any real interest in her up to this point...i mean she was the girl that everyody wanted to talk to on the golf team but i wasnt really gonna make any moves...now during these golf trips, shes winkin at me smiling and whatnot, and i caught her just staring at me multiple times...so im like alright these are the so called "signals" that you women use...so i decide to step and ask her for her number and she says flat out no...wtf??now clearly there is a problem here....truth is a lot of yall females like to play these little games that i dont have time for.....
smh...i hate this sh!t...dayum woman d!ck teasing men just because they're in thier ovulation stage of thier menstrual cycle, lonely as hell, and wanna see if they "got it"....smh...happened to me a few times...no fine girls though...(nessa)
Well I don't know about every other feamle, but I know if I throw out any more signs I'll be workin for the Department of Transportation. If I buy your **** for 65 damn dollars at an auction what the hell does that say. I know I am not about to pay $65 for anthing I don't want.
Well I don't know about every other feamle, but I know if I throw out any more signs I'll be workin for the Department of Transportation. If I buy your **** for 65 damn dollars at an auction what the hell does that say. I know I am not about to pay $65 for anthing I don't want.
oh hecky hell naw. U know what u could get for 65 bucks? Way more than what that boy prolly had to offer.
And believe it or not, women don't like rejection either. Some females don't throw themselves at guys or put themselves out there like that cuz they don't want to looked pressed. I know that's definately my case. I don't want to look like a groupie.
^^^lol
well...yall callin some women d!ck teasers....what about yall Cl!t teasers!!?? It happens to us women to...atleast the women bold enough to go up to a guy...you catch some cute guy lookin at you...givin you that "I wanna get to kno you" stare.....scanning your body up and down...smiling at you...givin you that "what up" nod...and when homegirl works up enough nerve to go over there and talk to a nig...its a completely different story....so some of yall men can be shady like that too!!! lol
both men and women are afraid of rejection and i believe most men and women have been guilty of not takin the hint either by accident or on purpose....
