okay im facing a problem within my relationship...this post is a little long but i wanted to give yall details...please respond with GOOD advice.
aii well me and my boyfriend met when he lived in new york. at the time i had just got out of something, and wasnt really trying to get into anything. he understood and we were just cool. he moved to north carolina because he got a scholarship to play ball at duke. about 8 almost 9 months ago we got together (yes he was in nc and i was in ny)...things were good, he knew i had a trust issue and he said he was willing to gain my trust which he did. things were going real good, i mean even though we were in different states we were still close as all hell. he grew to be one of my best friends, i mean he was there when i lost one of the pple in my crew, and was there when a few months later i lost my best friend...he was actually the one who pushed me to start doing good in school again. (now i know your tryna see where the problems come in...im getting to it.) well recently (past month or so), we havent been as close, i mean we used to talk on the phone ALL day, but now its not like that. when i call him he is always on the other line and needs to call me back, ill call sometimes he wont pick up the phone and later will say his aunt had it or his cusin. and like if he is on the other line he will say its with his mom or aunt or some family member...thing is he isnt THAT close with his family. like i said he gained my trust, but that female instinct is telling me that other stuff is going down..GRANTED he does have a lot going on in his life right now, and ive been right there by his side through it all, but it just seems like we are falling apart. i told him that i felt we were falling apart and ask if he still wants to stay together, he tells me he does and loves me more then anything...just i dont know anymore. its hard now being so distant, er'time he is supposed to come to new york something happens. i just dont know what to do...PLEASE GIMME YOUR THOUGHTS! thanx, yeah i know this is long...sorry :grin:
oh Sh*t he play for duke whas his name did he play this past year?
nah...he is playing in the fall or whenever it starts. he moved there though because he had to do some stuff before the season starts...but look out for him, i mean i must say my baby ::sigh:: is duummmb nice!! yall gonna see him on your TVs in a few years...but uh yeah im out
But when you say "ball" you mean, basketball football or baseball?
i presume basketball...
when have you heard ANYTHING about Duke football or baseball?
oh Sh*t he play for duke whas his name did he play this past year?
nah...he is playing in the fall or whenever it starts. he moved there though because he had to do some stuff before the season starts...but look out for him, i mean i must say my baby ::sigh:: is duummmb nice!! yall gonna see him on your TVs in a few years...but uh yeah im out
But when you say "ball" you mean, basketball football or baseball?
i presume basketball...
when have you heard ANYTHING about Duke football or baseball?
LOL...yeah basketball
Damn. I think I know who u talkin bout then.
Dude is nice as hell too. ****.
oh Sh*t he play for duke whas his name did he play this past year?
nah...he is playing in the fall or whenever it starts. he moved there though because he had to do some stuff before the season starts...but look out for him, i mean i must say my baby ::sigh:: is duummmb nice!! yall gonna see him on your TVs in a few years...but uh yeah im out
But when you say "ball" you mean, basketball football or baseball?
i presume basketball...
when have you heard ANYTHING about Duke football or baseball?
LOL...yeah basketball
Damn. I think I know who u talkin bout then.
Dude is nice as hell too. ****.
uh he doesnt go there yet...you go to duke or something?! but yeah we are getting OFF TOPIC!! lol back to the topic please...
oh Sh*t he play for duke whas his name did he play this past year?
nah...he is playing in the fall or whenever it starts. he moved there though because he had to do some stuff before the season starts...but look out for him, i mean i must say my baby ::sigh:: is duummmb nice!! yall gonna see him on your TVs in a few years...but uh yeah im out
But when you say "ball" you mean, basketball football or baseball?
i presume basketball...
when have you heard ANYTHING about Duke football or baseball?
LOL...yeah basketball
Damn. I think I know who u talkin bout then.
Dude is nice as hell too. ****.
uh he doesnt go there yet...you go to duke or something?! but yeah we are getting OFF TOPIC!! lol back to the topic please...
he prolly is one of them recruits that was mentioned in the News & Record....
but anyways... f**k Duke
Tar Heel Nation... :grin:
Nah m0delchiiq. But I hoop so I know who all is nice in my grade (i am(was) senior... til tonite i graduated ). And I think I know who you're talking about.
Lol. But yeah let me let people get back on topic.
yeah i did it...the hardest thing ive ever had to do in a relationship...leave the one person who could make me smile...well i guess used to make me smile. it was for the best, for both of us. come to find out he WAS NOT cheating and there WAS NOT another girl...he told me er'thing that was going on and why he was acting so funny. i told him he pushed me out of the picture and we decided time and space was the best thing...after can both get our lives straight (mostly him) we are going to talk and TRY and work things out. but in the mean time we can do whatever...which i know im not going to be with anyone like that. i cant he has my heart ::sigh:: yeah i know...whatever just thought i should update yall...thanx for those who kept it real with me...respond to this if you want..if not then i guess this is a **** topic...wish me luck with tryna keep my emotions in check. :???: :sad:
Awwww girl you are gonna be just fine. maybe time by yourself will be the best thing for you. just focus on yourself snd trying to make yourself hhappy. when all that comes along then maybe it will be a better time for you and him to try it again.
sorry to hear that your sad though....poor thing
i was in the same thing....go with ur girl instincts....more chances than none your dude is cheating period!!!....especially if he doesnt pick up his phone sometimes and is always tellin u to hold on....sorry to say it but hes cheating and u need to end it
i was in the same thing....go with ur girl instincts....more chances than none your dude is cheating period!!!....especially if he doesnt pick up his phone sometimes and is always tellin u to hold on....sorry to say it but hes cheating and u need to end it
ok im not tryna be mean or anything or rude...but did you read the UPDATE!!
). And I think I know who you're talking about.
Lol. But yeah let me let people get back on topic.
:sad: 
