Ladies, I have a question to ask:
Lets say that your best friend is a male....
Male is really, really, REALLY feeling you, and has been for a long long LONG time, but he realizes that he is your friend, and has been your friend for a long time. He also realizes that he can't be more than that if you dont want him to....He never does stop being your friend because he realizes that friendship in a bf/gf/fiance'/marriage type relationship is vital to the success in a relationship. He ALSO cherishes the fact the you and he are close friends, just because good friendship is hard to find.....
The point I'm getting at is this:
Why do ya'll always overlook the one that will always take care of you and looks out for you and your best interest? Why do ya'll exclude him from being a candidate for building a relationship with, when you know full well that he's a good man, and he will stand by you, support you and help aide you in keeping a healthy relationship? Why do ya'll exclude your true male friend from being 'next to you'????
I think life is just ironic like that sometimes. True, women know from jump if someone even serves the possibility of being more than a friend. But possibility is the key word in there. U can't always control who u fall for...and sometimes u may not even expect it.
I think life is just ironic like that sometimes. True, women know from jump if someone even serves the possibility of being more than a friend. But possibility is the key word in there. U can't always control who u fall for...and sometimes u may not even expect it.
this is true so true...
oh yeah for the celibacy post. :-D
I think life is just ironic like that sometimes. True, women know from jump if someone even serves the possibility of being more than a friend. But possibility is the key word in there. U can't always control who u fall for...and sometimes u may not even expect it.
Its not that I have overlooed my best male friend. My best male friend is my God brother. Which means we are entirely to close to be thinking about each other in a relatiionship way other than friends and brother and sister.
With that said my next best male friend is that guy I like. I just haven't found the way to tell him yet. I just figured out that I have actually liked him like that since the day that I met him but I was afraid to admit it.
Now that I have admitted it. I'm afraid to tell him. I mean he and I can talk about anything and I do mean anything. But for some reason I can't find a way to just come out and tell him how I feel when it comes to him.
I mean I could write it out and I have written but I have learned my lesson about writing out how I feel and giving it to somebody. Last time I did that nevamind. Back on topic I think telling him face to face would be better vs. phone, letter or thru the telephone tree. Just my opinion. All I know is I am stuck but to answer ya question Kool I am considering my best male friend.
oh yeah 
for the celibacy post. :-D
