MiSs_OeS wrote: Buttascotch wrote: Kool 5000 wrote: ya'll wouldn't try to help out him/her? Keep in mind, that they aren't fully addicted YET....but they've experiemented with it once or twice....
i feel you on that too...if u still being influenced by your peers to do things u know not good for you, then I dont need to be with you cause you got some growin up to do.
It seems like people would be more likely to do crack/**** because of reasons contrary to peer pressure. I mean, how many crackheads have clean friends that they influence? I think this would probaly amount from personal problems and he/she tryn to find some type of relief. If this is from peer pressure I would say the same thing about every intoxicating substance. Like I said before though, I would stay w/ her depending on how close I was to her. If that was just my close friend I would want to help in some capacity though. I'm from chicago though, so I know how to help crackheads/drunks w/o lettin them get too close to me and steal stuff.
In my current relationship I would have to stay for a while and help her. It is funny that so many of yall are saying "hell naw, I would have to go". But what if that person was your boyfriend/girlfriend and your best friend all in one? I am not sure what kind of relationships some of yall get in but my relationship consist of someone who is a friend (my best friend) first then my girlfriend.
So.....yes, I would stay in my relationship. Now of course if she was stealing and not trying to get in rehab eventually I would have to go
wed be fightin... no Lewis/Huntley with blood ties to ME will be takin them potent **** ****... i already had a cousin get locked up for sellin the shyt, cant have any more of em fall
King_J wrote: In my current relationship I would have to stay for a while and help her. It is funny that so many of yall are saying "hell naw, I would have to go". But what if that person was your boyfriend/girlfriend and your best friend all in one? I am not sure what kind of relationships some of yall get in but my relationship consist of someone who is a friend (my best friend) first then my girlfriend.
So.....yes, I would stay in my relationship. Now of course if she was stealing and not trying to get in rehab eventually I would have to go
Thats all well and good J, and in an ideal world, thats exactly how it should be. But we not in an ideal world. See I look at it from her point of view. Would she stay with a f*ck up like me (for doing carck or **** or wuteva else) when there are so many other men out there that she could be leading a better life with? Nope. She'd be out. Therefore, if u using hard ****, go chill wit thugs, and since i ain't no ****, she gots to go. It ain't cruel, its reality
Branded J.S. Bison wrote: King_J wrote: In my current relationship I would have to stay for a while and help her. It is funny that so many of yall are saying "hell naw, I would have to go". But what if that person was your boyfriend/girlfriend and your best friend all in one? I am not sure what kind of relationships some of yall get in but my relationship consist of someone who is a friend (my best friend) first then my girlfriend.
So.....yes, I would stay in my relationship. Now of course if she was stealing and not trying to get in rehab eventually I would have to go
I have looked at it from my girlfriends point of view. And since as I said before we are friends first she would help me out before just dropping me from the beginning.
How can u say u are someones friend and partner then drop them as soon as they mess up a little bit?? Yep, I see so well how people can say when they were down people dropped them and quit talking to them. And as I said, if she is flat out stealing all your sh*t then duh, it is time to move on. But not all crackheads and people on **** go out and steal everyones things. I am saying why not try to help her first then perhaps end it if the help doesn't help?
