Have any of ya'll ever been in a helpless-type situation where all you could do is roll with the punches? I'm usually the person who tries to find a solution to every problem, but I've started going through one in which I have NO control over whatsoever...and it ****. In case you're wondering, I'm watching my parents age very quickly. Their pasts are starting to really catch up with them, and I find myself taking more and more care of them (and myself) that I'm usually used to. It's one of those situations where I just gotta deal with it. Accept it for what it is, and adapt to it.
Anybody feel me?
Have any of ya'll ever been in a helpless-type situation where all you could do is roll with the punches? I'm usually the person who tries to find a solution to every problem, but I've started going through one in which I have NO control over whatsoever...and it ****. In case you're wondering, I'm watching my parents age very quickly. Their pasts are starting to really catch up with them, and I find myself taking more and more care of them (and myself) that I'm usually used to. It's one of those situations where I just gotta deal with it. Accept it for what it is, and adapt to it.
Anybody feel me?
also i think as long as you have some sort of outlet it will help. like a girlfriend, best friend, or other close family member to go to when ever you feel discouraged.
Outlet...riiiight.
The only real outlet I got is them. It's hard to talk to em about it, too, so there goes that.
Girlfriend? You're joking, right? Women dont associate decent guys with the word 'boyfriend'....
I couldn't help getting KTFO by Juan Lazcano. I felt pretty helpless there, and woozy.
Lol. When'd this happen John?
Yeah, it's probably recent cuz I remember in a post a while back about him never gettin knocked out......unless he's playin :???:
No, Juan laid it down on me in sparring earlier this summer. Can only take so many right hands. I was schooling him for about 5 rounds, and then I got a little bit too over anxious and blam, right hand lazerbeam just sent me to la la land. The flurry afterwards of about 2000 unanswered punches didn't help either.
I couldn't help getting KTFO by Juan Lazcano. I felt pretty helpless there, and woozy.
Lol. When'd this happen John?
Yeah, it's probably recent cuz I remember in a post a while back about him never gettin knocked out......unless he's playin :???:
No, Juan laid it down on me in sparring earlier this summer. Can only take so many right hands. I was schooling him for about 5 rounds, and then I got a little bit too over anxious and blam, right hand lazerbeam just sent me to la la land. The flurry afterwards of about 2000 unanswered punches didn't help either.
Outlet...riiiight.
The only real outlet I got is them. It's hard to talk to em about it, too, so there goes that.
Girlfriend? You're joking, right? Women dont associate decent guys with the word 'boyfriend'....
Awww... thats sad.. about the girlfriend part.
I understand about them being your only outlet, thats how I felt when my nana was alive, she died of cancer. However I found that finding someone to talk about it wit really helped. To be honst I really wasn't that social...but once I opened up I found i could let some of my stress go whenever i talked about it. But you'll get tough it it's just one more part of life you have to grow from and learn from. Like someone already said ''what doesn't **** you makes you stronger''
I have been where you are and some...but I learned there are things I have NO control over...so I went to someone bigger than any problem i'll ever have...God. If it had not been for the Lord where would I be...Lean not to thine own understanding...
:hugs: it'll be alright don' t focus on the negative...
