aiight, somethin' else we were talkin' about last night....
how many children we want....
& he was like he wants 3....all boys...no girls...
his reason? 'cause females go through too much in life AND because he's come to see that women are hard to live with after age 13 :roll:...
okay, 1st of all...by him saying we go through a lot...I'll give him that...'cause it's true...we do....guys do too, but he said somethin' I had never thought about like that....he was like, females get b/s from both sides (both genders)...
guys' biggest issues in life are females....they might get hated on by other dudes, but not NEARLY as much as females hate on other females....PLUS how much females gotta go thru with dudes....
i was like, yeah that's true...
but i just really hate it when i hear someone say they don't want a certain gender for kids....& it's ALWAYS not wantin' daughters...i've heard so many females say they don't want any girls - just boys...'cause girls have too many issues, have to experience too much pain, or whatEVa...& just blah blah blah...
i told the friend i was talkin' to last night that watch he mess around & have 3 girls, lol....& had me laughin'....but @ the same time SURRiously disturbed, lol...when he was talkin' about some...if the first child is a girl, he's gonna just stop, ****...i was like WTF?!?!? then he said if the first is a boy & the 2nd's a girl, he'll stop there :roll:...i was like damn...DAMN shame...
i hope none of u r like this....but anyway, jus' had ta vent real quick :arrow:
I always wanted two boys because i saw females as too much hovering over and i've seen how females get harassed on the daily and i'de have to shoot somebody for messing with my daughter but now I'm scared to have kids ever since my daughter died a few days after she was born. and when she was born it was a whole different story. you may only want a certain gender beforehand but once your child is born you see it as a true blessing and don't care wether it's a boy or girl when it comes.
i know u've probably heard this a hundred times already...but i really am sorry to hear that about your daughter....
& that last statement is so true...
i know that knowing the type of person I am, if there were EVER a circumstance where i had decided before the birth of my child that i was going to give him/her up for adoption upon his/her immediate arrival into the world...ALL of that would be erased as soon as that little somebody actually comes out of my womb...& i think that's what a lot of people go through...
like, once you seen that little creation God has given you...all else is irrelevant...
