This is to my REAL MEN
If/when you become fathers PLEASE take care of your kids..Even if you slip up and have a kid with your girlfriend and she becomes your baby momma,and then ya cant stand her! (sorry) Take care of your lil ones...ESPECIALLY those who grew up without a father. You would understand the pain of having a DEADBEAT DADDY who doesnt care for you,tells you he's gonna take you here and there and never shows up...I'VE been there and still am there! my father does more for my brothers and ignores moi.....
And I see history repeats itself...My babydaddy doesnt care for HIS daughter and I dont want her growing up with hate for the dumb **** but ya know...
So anyway, that's all i got to say...DONT EVER SAY I AINT TELL YALL NOTHING :wink: :lol:
I did a blog on this recently.
My **** donor and I have not spoken since 2000. I have tried to establish a relationship with him but he never had the interest or the time. Oh well, he won't have a good relationship with his grand daughters either.
I, on the other hand went the opposite direction of my father. I helped with homework, went to parks played videogames and taught my daughters how to fight. (to protect themselves) It pains me that their mother and I had to divorce and my military obligations have me all over the world, but to them, I am always daddy and I will always protect, guide and take care of them (financially and otherwise). Even from a distance.
I feel ya on that sista.. there are too many lil bad kids walking around with no respect for anyone. There are kids out there who needs a male role model in there life forreal. I grew up without my father but thank the Lord that he blessed me with a great mother. Fellas if yall slip up DO NOT run from yall problem. Be a man and take care of ur responsibilities...
Great Post
damn yup yup that riight there got to me yeah thats why iim bout to be there for my kiids cuz ii grew up wiith out ma pops so ii just done even know iif iim fiinna be a good father because ii just aiint neva had a row-model
Real talk. I have two kids a daughter and a son. I would put my life down any second for them. If anything would ever happen between their mother and myself, so be it. But I could never imagine not being in my seeds life.
PRAISE THE LORD!!!
I have read all of the comments and I agree with everybody. That's why I'm a firm believer of abstinance until marriage. This will solve a lot of the problems. Now keep in mind that marriage alone wont keep the father or mother obligated to their responsibilities, that's why I also promote Holiness. If a Holy man of God marries a Holy woman of God, than the love they have for God will be evident to each other and will be easily passed on to their children. This way you wont have to worry about children not getting all of their needs tooken care of. God loves for things to be done decently and in order, and the order of having children is "ABSTINANCE UNTIL MARRIAGE!!!
Guys always go around humpin anything that walks unprotected and they get mad when they have a baby or get an STD. That is why I always tell my brother to be careful where he 'sticks his stick'. He is a male **** and it worries me what kind of diseases he could have. I dont even sit on the same toilet as him anymore. Its crazy...........
How about telling him he needs to live for Jesus and quit fornicating before marriage. That will save him from a lot of trouble.
PRAISE THE LORD!!!
I agree with you smc112. It's one thing to talk about what's wrong with a person, but it's another to help them solve their problem. When you have the answer you must share it. That's why I make it a point to let everybody know that JESUS is the answer to any problem. Keep in mind also, that it takes someone that truly has JESUS to tell others about him. Especially when it comes to family. If you faking and shaking and hitting and missing they aint going to want to hear nothing you talking about. Your family knows if you're for real even when nobody else does. It's like my Bishop said one day at Outreach, you can't expect to sell someone some skin cream and your skin messed up!!! How you gonna try and offer somebody something that you aint never tried??? (excuse the bad grammer...trying to make a point!!!)
PRAISE THE LORD!!!
I agree with you smc112. It's one thing to talk about what's wrong with a person, but it's another to help them solve their problem. When you have the answer you must share it. That's why I make it a point to let everybody know that JESUS is the answer to any problem. Keep in mind also, that it takes someone that truly has JESUS to tell others about him. Especially when it comes to family. If you faking and shaking and hitting and missing they aint going to want to hear nothing you talking about. Your family knows if you're for real even when nobody else does. It's like my Bishop said one day at Outreach, you can't expect to sell someone some skin cream and your skin messed up!!! How you gonna try and offer somebody something that you aint never tried??? (excuse the bad grammer...trying to make a point!!!)
That is true because her brother isn't going to listen to a thing if she is out there doing worldly stuff. Actually, I just didn't have time to go and explain what I meant about Jesus. (I'm busy with school work,etc.) People know deep down the difference between right and wrong, so you really don't have to give them a long sermon. Just keep it short and sweet. People's life is their biggest sermon anyway.
