Dont Say You're Not (if you are)

I am not materialistic at all it's just as a self sulficient women I want a man that is compatible with me. I do not need to have a guy weighing on me hand and foot because I can take care of myself. I just want somebody that would be able to take care of themselves and not need someone to take care of them. As long as the guy that I am with is ambitious and striving to excel at what ever they do I will support them. Who ever I am going to be with if I could not make ends meet I would want them to be able to help pick up the slack.

I had to read everyones responses before I posted. I for one am not materialistic. What a man has is of no consequence to me because I work and pay my own bills, drive my own car and such. I feel that if my mate and I have an understanding then we are okay. A relationship is give and take. You have to be with someone that understands that completely. As far as looks. I would like to be with someone I'm attracted to. I don't care if every other female doesn't want him.