I was browsing through the fellas forum and someone posed to question about whether or not a guy could accept the number of partners his girl had. Ladies...would ya'll really wanna know the number of girls your man has slept with?
I know when my boyfriend told me the number, I was shocked as hell...shoot at first he didn't even want to tell me. I didn't judge him from that, but I was like damn...thats a lot of girls.
What if the guy told you a large number like 36. Would he be dismissed?
My byofriend told me a higher number than that. At first, I was reallu questioning being with him, but I can't judge him for the thing he did in his past...especially now that he has changed. I mean I am sure there are a lot of people who have skeletons in their closets and don't want to be judged for them.
That nig a hoe
Aww leave my baby alone. He's not even like that anymore...trust if he was then I wouldn't be with him.
Once a hoe always a hoe.... Cant turn a hoe into a housewife/husband....
I totally understand that, shoot when he told me I was absolutely surprised. But my thing is, why judge him for things he did in his past? I mean if he was still a dog and going around sleeping with females then I would not be interested in dating him. He hasn't done that in a while and he has truly changed. I am sure there are some things you have done in your past that you don't want people to hold against you.
EXACTLY. We ALL have skeletons. But if everyone approached a relationship by simply picking at the mistakes, that wouldn't leave room to enjoy the positives. If her boo was proud of it, and was still glorifying that lifestyle, then that's another issue. But if he has made an effort to change then he shouldn't be judged. No one is perfect, and if ya name ain't Jesus...then who cares anyway? That's how i look at it.
I'm sorry but I would have a serious problem with dating someone who has given the "gift" to half the female population.What if things don't work out??? Will I become another name on his list? I think NOT
What if the guy told you a large number like 36. Would he be dismissed?
My byofriend told me a higher number than that. At first, I was reallu questioning being with him, but I can't judge him for the thing he did in his past...especially now that he has changed. I mean I am sure there are a lot of people who have skeletons in their closets and don't want to be judged for them.
That nig a hoe
Aww leave my baby alone. He's not even like that anymore...trust if he was then I wouldn't be with him.
Once a hoe always a hoe.... Cant turn a hoe into a housewife/husband....
I totally understand that, shoot when he told me I was absolutely surprised. But my thing is, why judge him for things he did in his past? I mean if he was still a dog and going around sleeping with females then I would not be interested in dating him. He hasn't done that in a while and he has truly changed. I am sure there are some things you have done in your past that you don't want people to hold against you.
EXACTLY. We ALL have skeletons. But if everyone approached a relationship by simply picking at the mistakes, that wouldn't leave room to enjoy the positives. If her boo was proud of it, and was still glorifying that lifestyle, then that's another issue. But if he has made an effort to change then he shouldn't be judged. No one is perfect, and if ya name ain't Jesus...then who cares anyway? That's how i look at it.
I'm sorry but I would have a serious problem with dating someone who has given the "gift" to half the female population.What if things don't work out??? Will I become another name on his list? I think NOT
If I were considering losing my virginity to him, then that would be a big issue. But, I am not even thinking about sleeping with him...
I was browsing through the fellas forum and someone posed to question about whether or not a guy could accept the number of partners his girl had. Ladies...would ya'll really wanna know the number of girls your man has slept with?
I would want to know, but I don't think I'll have the nerve to ask him....
I'm sorry but I would have a serious problem with dating someone who has given the "gift" to half the female population.What if things don't work out??? Will I become another name on his list? I think NOT
If I were considering losing my virginity to him, then that would be a big issue. But, I am not even thinking about sleeping with him...
Girl...if u ain't speaking it! That's EXACTLY what i was gonna say. When u make wise decisions, u have no regrets. I'm not saying that everyone has to be a virgin until marriage like me. It isn't for everyone...i know that. But i can tell u this, it eliminates all the "what ifs" and "maybes" that comes along with giving your body away to some cat who isn't promised to u.
I'm sorry but I would have a serious problem with dating someone who has given the "gift" to half the female population.What if things don't work out??? Will I become another name on his list? I think NOT
If I were considering losing my virginity to him, then that would be a big issue. But, I am not even thinking about sleeping with him...
Girl...if u ain't speaking it! That's EXACTLY what i was gonna say. When u make wise decisions, u have no regrets. I'm not saying that everyone has to be a virgin until marriage like me. It isn't for everyone...i know that. But i can tell u this, it eliminates all the "what ifs" and "maybes" that comes along with giving your body away to some cat who isn't promised to u.
I totally agree with that and also...if you have doubts, then maybe you should re-think the decision to sleep with him.
