Point blank its wrong...stop trying to justify it...no way a 13 year old is on the same level as a 20 year old....
As grown as YOU think u are and as Mature as YOU think u r...guess what...ur the only person who feels that way... :arrow:
Better go sit ya 5th grade **** down...
How the hell do that sound...this **** in college...and u in the 5th grade...thats just sick
I don't agree with older men with a minor, but once you are 18 it's your choice as to who you want to be with. Everyone thinks the younger girls can be manipulated, she's looking for a father, he wants to make himself feel better, she's a gold digger, and he is trying to stay young. Yes some of this does happen. However, there are some of us who fit with our mate b/c of maturity,chemistry, and being open minded. To me it's only 3 ppl who have to be comfortable with the relationship God and the 2 adults.
You can't just sit and make generalizations about every kind of relationship that is like that. Not every women who dates an older man is looking for a man to be her daddy, and not every older man who dates a younger woman is looking for somebody to control. My parents are 11 yrs a part and I know for a fact that my mom wasn't in search of a father figure, and that my dad wasn't some random perv. My parents have been married for the past 30 yrs and they have one of the best relationships I know of. So not everybody who is in a relationship with a person significantly older or younger than them has an alterior motive, even though some do. Some people see age as just a number and are actually attracted they person because of their personality and attraction to that person
LadyJag7 wrote: You can't just sit and make generalizations about every kind of relationship that is like that. Not every women who dates an older man is looking for a man to be her daddy, and not every older man who dates a younger woman is looking for somebody to control. My parents are 11 yrs a part and I know for a fact that my mom wasn't in search of a father figure, and that my dad wasn't some random perv. My parents have been married for the past 30 yrs and they have one of the best relationships I know of. So not everybody who is in a relationship with a person significantly older or younger than them has an alterior motive, even though some do. Some people see age as just a number and are actually attracted they person because of their personality and attraction to that person
^yea....what she said......
Okay, I haven't read everyone's responses to this thread, nor do I plan to, but I agree with Rod's inital post. I've often wondered about this myself. I personally have no plans on dating someone who is 28 or so and I'm almost 22. I know that I'm mature and alla that good stuff but some of these age gaps are just ridiculous. My homegirl is presently dating a 28 yr old and it's just so strange to me. He acts like the almost 30 yr old man that he is, but as grown and whatnot that she thinks she is, they just do not match. It's like she puts on a front when she's around him but in reality she's still a wild 22 yr old that likes to go out and get messed up every weekend. The same goes with 15 yr olds with 20 yr old boyfriends. I mean really, WHAT do ya'll have in common or are you just too grown for your britches?
I have always seen it this way, dudes that are 20 or so and still looking for dates in high school are thinking with their "other head" and need to grow the hell up and get someone their own age. As a sophomore in college, WHAT would make you be in any situation where you could end up hooking up with someone 5 yrs younger than you? SOMEONE, please help me understand this. I focus more on males here because there aren't THAT many females, that I know of, that would even consider dating a guy that is 2 yrs younger than them, more or less 5.
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