I just want to know how y'all cope with the pain of a break-up or something very similar.
I would have to say that I juss lock myself away and listen to songs that relate my situation (crying it out) until it all goes away, esp. since I don't get the chance to leave the house much. But.....when I do get to leave the house, I stay out as long as possible and have a good tie, trying to forget about it.
Usually I try to forget about that person as much as possible by keeping myself busy constantly, they say it isn't good but it works for me. I'll go out with my girls, talk on the phone, and if I am home by myself I'll listen to songs that make me glad that we broke up...haha like that song from way back "I hate you so much right now," by Kelis, or I'll throw in some Destiny's Child.
I just want to know how y'all cope with the pain of a break-up or something very similar.
I would have to say that I juss lock myself away and listen to songs that relate my situation (crying it out) until it all goes away, esp. since I don't get the chance to leave the house much. But.....when I do get to leave the house, I stay out as long as possible and have a good tie, trying to forget about it.
Well luckily I am now living with my boyfriend of two years happily, but my break up with my boyfriend before him was terrible. We both knew it was over, but I still cared for him...so I tripped of course.
I was in shock at first that it was really over. After I came back to reality, everything that he had ever given me was torn, trashed or thrown out the window. (seriously) I cried a lot and went into a state of depression for like 2 weeks, but after that I picked myself up and realized that life goes on after break ups. He obviously wasn't even meant to be in my life and now I'm with someone who luvs me on levels that my ex never could or did.
I just want to know how y'all cope with the pain of a break-up or something very similar.
I would have to say that I juss lock myself away and listen to songs that relate my situation (crying it out) until it all goes away, esp. since I don't get the chance to leave the house much. But.....when I do get to leave the house, I stay out as long as possible and have a good tie, trying to forget about it.
Well luckily I am now living with my boyfriend of two years happily, but my break up with my boyfriend before him was terrible. We both knew it was over, but I still cared for him...so I tripped of course.
I was in shock at first that it was really over. After I came back to reality, everything that he had ever given me was torn, trashed or thrown out the window. (seriously) I cried a lot and went into a state of depression for like 2 weeks, but after that I picked myself up and realized that life goes on after break ups. He obviously wasn't even meant to be in my life and now I'm with someone who luvs me on levels that my ex never could or did.