this isnt for highschool girls, sorry
but recently ive just now come to the realization that i have matured into a grown **** woman...before i was kinda immature but ive come to a point in my life where im sure of myself....it happened when i changed my major to marketing and didnt listen to anyone's opinions about what i should do in life, even disregarding my mom's opinions and plenty of hateration....so ladies when did you realize you were a grown **** woman and what happened??
*reppin for grown **** women, class of 2007, cant drink but can smoke and drive and got plenty dreams in my head
Emotions have very little to do with maturity and a female can have a strong spiritual background at the age of 17 but be immature in every other area.
Women do not have immature emotions, to suggest that you would have to trace that to a physiological basis, and look at the brain and gender differnces and the truth is that males and females are not very different in any physiological sense, the differences all come from experiences, so you can not generalize a group of people who do not share the same experiences.
It's funny how males comment of women's emotions and how some may display too many emotions in life as if its a weakness, yet if you were to come across a woman who was the opposite and showed very little emotion, and cared very little for how her behavior effects others, people would probably think she is a cold-hearted person and wouldn't want to be around her much. Often what makes a woman ... a great woman is her ability to express her emotions properly, and use those same emotions to fuel her strength, courage, motivation, and nurturing tendencies.
I do agree that being a woman/man is not measure by the bills you pay, you can pay all of your bills consistently, two weeks before they are due, you may have good credit but you can still be selfish, irresponsible in other aspects, not learn from any of your mistakes, unableto hold yourself accountable for you actions, unmotivated, with little ambition, and think that life is just a big game that you play at the expense of others.
i stopped reading this as soon as she said "emotions have very little to do with maturity"....that's the dumbest thing i've heard all week....so i didn't even read the rest after that sentences... 8-) (nessa)
If you really did stop reading after that then that just demonstrates the level of maturity you are, one of the things that make a man and ACTUAL man is being able to listen to others views, and respong in a respectful manner, you have a long ways to go, hun. It's funny how someone who is so far from reaching their own goals of maturity has the nerve to sit her and judge a whole group of people on what he thinks makes them mature.
Emotions among others are what make humans unique, therefore expressing emotions have little to do with maturity but have everything to do with being humane.
so am i immature if someone writes a letter to me that begins "you stupid n!gger"...and i stop reading it rigth after that and repsond in a disrepectful manner and don't want to hear thier point of view?
dude, like i said, what you said was dumb..."emotions have very little to do with maturity"...did you really mean to say that? i think you meant something different....8-) (nessa)
Im grown cause I do what the fukk I want and make my own choices for my life...in that sense...but I dont Im completely grown up yet, cause my parents still support me and I still act young with the things I say and do cause hell, Im still growin up and in college and having fun...Im not trying to be all extra grown yet...cause to me being a grown **** woman is being financially independent, responsible and accountable for your life choices, living for you and no one else, and just exuding what a woman should be...and I can be honest enough with myself to say Im not there yet completely...but I will be one day.
I'm not tryn to get at any specific person or anything but just making a comment. Now, many people have their own definition of what a grown man or grown woman is right. Why does it seem like so many females compared to guys are setting their standards of being a grown person so low?
I'm not tryn to get at any specific person or anything but just making a comment. Now, many people have their own definition of what a grown man or grown woman is right. Why does it seem like so many females compared to guys are setting their standards of being a grown person so low?
Who are you to tell someone that their reason for being grown isn't good enough?!?! Maybe, it is to them. Only that person can define what " grown" is them.
Who are you to tell someone that their reason for being grown isn't good enough?!?! Maybe, it is to them. Only that person can define what " grown" is them.
so basically youre saying that being grown is what it is to that person and that person only, even if it means that theyre 16, dont have a job, recieves money form parents, has no real life experience, spends money however they want,etc,etc...would you consider this person i described grown??
