i'm starting to believe that too many brotha's find it waaaaaaaay too easy to call a female a "****" when they're **** @ her.....even from the people i'd least expect it....
Qua....thas my buddy, no doubt....but he know i definitely wasn't feelin' him callin' the female he's feelin' a b*tch....when she wasn't cooperating about them hookin' up...& made the comment about him not being able 2 come see her or whateva....
my friend Jason...was REALLY...REALLY feelin' some chick @ his school...i mean, dude sounded like he was in LOVE...& kept talkin' about approachin' her about his feelings & whatnot....that was, i SWEAR, like TWO WEEKS ago......& now....she a "crazy b*tch" . . . ......& when i ask him, "aiight, Jason...tell me...how is she crazy?"...he can't give me a legit response....but even if he COULD...i'm like DAMN...u were JUST feelin' the ISH outta her (or so u SAID)...how could u possibly call her a "b*tch" now?!?
& then 1FocusedBruh..the "never trust a big **** & a smile" thread.....that's what inspired this, lol...
i'm starting to believe ALL DUDES call females "b*tches" behind closed doors.....
dudes....is this a regular thing for ya'll? i mean, when u get with ya boys or female friends - even when u ain't upset - do u call us that??? i mean, dag....i'm just curious....
& ladies....is this a frequent thing among your male friends...or no?
& while we're on the reference of "b*tch"....a friend of mine told me that a white male friend of his told him somethin' like, "i hate to tell u this, but when Black people aren't around...we (White people) all call ya'll the N word" i was like daaaaaaaaag....like u always hear Black folkz sayin', "man, i bet White folks call us 'n*ggers' all the time behind our backs!"....but to actually have a White person ADMIT it...& MEAN it.......lol i don't know - that's just a trip 2 me...
Hmmm ... I think BiT(h is a word that needs to be used at times ... but i dont think its all that bad because some n's act like bi*(hes ... and some females do too
i don't intentionally call a girl a B
but as i use it commonly 2 talk about everything but women sometimes they're caught in a group order or joke
such as "get in the car b*tches" or su'n like that
i apologize if that means anything but ehh
can't say i don't try 2 treat ladies right
do girls understand the difference btwn a jokin b*tch and a condescending or demeaning bit*h
hmm??
(yea d.blaze is back now that life has been crushed with his new location)
1st of all, great 2 see u back! it's been a good lil' minute, hasn't it?
2ndly...i'm glad u can at least admit that u do do it...consciously or unconsciously....
& finally...see, that's the thing....joke vs. not...but who draws the line? & y is that even funny in the 1st place? y not have a reasonable substitute for it??
i just don't understand how it even came to be used in a joking manner...
just like "n*gga" being considered as a "term of endearment" will DEFinitely 4EVER be beyond me :x
but hey...that's Black folks 4 ya...we r SO mixed up...
which sort of gives me the idea 4 a new topic...but i might save it 4 2morrow....
i'm starting to believe that too many brotha's find it waaaaaaaay too easy to call a female a "B*tch" when they're **** @ her.....even from the people i'd least expect it....
Qua....thas my buddy, no doubt....but he know i definitely wasn't feelin' him callin' the female he's feelin' a b*tch....when she wasn't cooperating about them hookin' up...& made the comment about him not being able 2 come see her or whateva....
my friend Jason...was REALLY...REALLY feelin' some chick @ his school...i mean, dude sounded like he was in LOVE...& kept talkin' about approachin' her about his feelings & whatnot....that was, i SWEAR, like TWO WEEKS ago......& now....she a "crazy b*tch" . . . ......& when i ask him, "aiight, Jason...tell me...how is she crazy?"...he can't give me a legit response....but even if he COULD...i'm like DAMN...u were JUST feelin' the ISH outta her (or so u SAID)...how could u possibly call her a "b*tch" now?!?
& then 1FocusedBruh..the "never trust a big **** & a smile" thread.....that's what inspired this, lol...
i'm starting to believe ALL DUDES call females "b*tches" behind closed doors.....
dudes....is this a regular thing for ya'll? i mean, when u get with ya boys or female friends - even when u ain't upset - do u call us that??? i mean, dag....i'm just curious....
& ladies....is this a frequent thing among your male friends...or no?
& while we're on the reference of "b*tch"....a friend of mine told me that a white male friend of his told him somethin' like, "i hate to tell u this, but when Black people aren't around...we (White people) all call ya'll the N word" i was like daaaaaaaaag....like u always hear Black folkz sayin', "man, i bet White folks call us 'n*ggers' all the time behind our backs!"....but to actually have a White person ADMIT it...& MEAN it.......lol i don't know - that's just a trip 2 me...
I have something to add...
I don't know about all guys, but the ones that I am around the most call females in general b*tches if they aren't of high school age.
I sit back sometimes and listen to my boyfriend talk to his friends....some saying things about their girls like "man this b*tch be gettin on my nerves", "man I'm tired of that b*tch", " man this b*tch" or on occasion I might even hear one of their girlfriends being called a b*tch out in public.
The thing is why call her a b*tch if she is your girl. I understand if some women are out right just evil, but most of these women are nice, carry themselves well, and have self-respect.
Another thing that has me and my boyfriend arguing on occasion is the fact that any woman to them can be called a b*tch. Women on TV, women that he knows, women who sing on the radio,ect.He will be singing a song that I like but then when it comes down to the part when they are talkin about the female, he replaces words like this: From Sierra's Goodies
"Slow down little one" --- he repalces it with this " slow down you lil' b*tch.
He even calls me a b*tch when he gets mad at me (really mad), even though I'm not one and many can attest to that.
i'm starting to believe that too many brotha's find it waaaaaaaay too easy to call a female a "B*tch" when they're **** @ her.....even from the people i'd least expect it....
Qua....thas my buddy, no doubt....but he know i definitely wasn't feelin' him callin' the female he's feelin' a b*tch....when she wasn't cooperating about them hookin' up...& made the comment about him not being able 2 come see her or whateva....
my friend Jason...was REALLY...REALLY feelin' some chick @ his school...i mean, dude sounded like he was in LOVE...& kept talkin' about approachin' her about his feelings & whatnot....that was, i SWEAR, like TWO WEEKS ago......& now....she a "crazy b*tch" . . . ......& when i ask him, "aiight, Jason...tell me...how is she crazy?"...he can't give me a legit response....but even if he COULD...i'm like DAMN...u were JUST feelin' the ISH outta her (or so u SAID)...how could u possibly call her a "b*tch" now?!?
& then 1FocusedBruh..the "never trust a big **** & a smile" thread.....that's what inspired this, lol...
i'm starting to believe ALL DUDES call females "b*tches" behind closed doors.....
dudes....is this a regular thing for ya'll? i mean, when u get with ya boys or female friends - even when u ain't upset - do u call us that??? i mean, dag....i'm just curious....
& ladies....is this a frequent thing among your male friends...or no?
& while we're on the reference of "b*tch"....a friend of mine told me that a white male friend of his told him somethin' like, "i hate to tell u this, but when Black people aren't around...we (White people) all call ya'll the N word" i was like daaaaaaaaag....like u always hear Black folkz sayin', "man, i bet White folks call us 'n*ggers' all the time behind our backs!"....but to actually have a White person ADMIT it...& MEAN it.......lol i don't know - that's just a trip 2 me...
I have something to add...
I don't know about all guys, but the ones that I am around the most call females in general b*tches if they aren't of high school age.
I sit back sometimes and listen to my boyfriend talk to his friends....some saying things about their girls like "man this b*tch be gettin on my nerves", "man I'm tired of that b*tch", " man this b*tch" or on occasion I might even hear one of their girlfriends being called a b*tch out in public.
The thing is why call her a b*tch if she is your girl. I understand if some women are out right just evil, but most of these women are nice, carry themselves well, and have self-respect.
Another thing that has me and my boyfriend arguing on occasion is the fact that any woman to them can be called a b*tch. Women on TV, women that he knows, women who sing on the radio,ect.He will be singing a song that I like but then when it comes down to the part when they are talkin about the female, he replaces words like this: From Sierra's Goodies
"Slow down little one" --- he repalces it with this " slow down you lil' b*tch.
He even calls me a b*tch when he gets mad at me (really mad), even though I'm not one and many can attest to that.
i'm starting to believe that too many brotha's find it waaaaaaaay too easy to call a female a "B*tch" when they're **** @ her.....even from the people i'd least expect it....
Qua....thas my buddy, no doubt....but he know i definitely wasn't feelin' him callin' the female he's feelin' a b*tch....when she wasn't cooperating about them hookin' up...& made the comment about him not being able 2 come see her or whateva....
my friend Jason...was REALLY...REALLY feelin' some chick @ his school...i mean, dude sounded like he was in LOVE...& kept talkin' about approachin' her about his feelings & whatnot....that was, i SWEAR, like TWO WEEKS ago......& now....she a "crazy b*tch" . . . ......& when i ask him, "aiight, Jason...tell me...how is she crazy?"...he can't give me a legit response....but even if he COULD...i'm like DAMN...u were JUST feelin' the ISH outta her (or so u SAID)...how could u possibly call her a "b*tch" now?!?
& then 1FocusedBruh..the "never trust a big **** & a smile" thread.....that's what inspired this, lol...
i'm starting to believe ALL DUDES call females "b*tches" behind closed doors.....
dudes....is this a regular thing for ya'll? i mean, when u get with ya boys or female friends - even when u ain't upset - do u call us that??? i mean, dag....i'm just curious....
& ladies....is this a frequent thing among your male friends...or no?
& while we're on the reference of "b*tch"....a friend of mine told me that a white male friend of his told him somethin' like, "i hate to tell u this, but when Black people aren't around...we (White people) all call ya'll the N word" i was like daaaaaaaaag....like u always hear Black folkz sayin', "man, i bet White folks call us 'n*ggers' all the time behind our backs!"....but to actually have a White person ADMIT it...& MEAN it.......lol i don't know - that's just a trip 2 me...
I have something to add...
I don't know about all guys, but the ones that I am around the most call females in general b*tches if they aren't of high school age.
I sit back sometimes and listen to my boyfriend talk to his friends....some saying things about their girls like "man this b*tch be gettin on my nerves", "man I'm tired of that b*tch", " man this b*tch" or on occasion I might even hear one of their girlfriends being called a b*tch out in public.
The thing is why call her a b*tch if she is your girl. I understand if some women are out right just evil, but most of these women are nice, carry themselves well, and have self-respect.
Another thing that has me and my boyfriend arguing on occasion is the fact that any woman to them can be called a b*tch. Women on TV, women that he knows, women who sing on the radio,ect.He will be singing a song that I like but then when it comes down to the part when they are talkin about the female, he replaces words like this: From Sierra's Goodies
"Slow down little one" --- he repalces it with this " slow down you lil' b*tch.
He even calls me a b*tch when he gets mad at me (really mad), even though I'm not one and many can attest to that.
That might be a DL woman ****. For real.
Now where did that come from...cause they call some women a b*tch they have to be a woman ****???
No he isn't and they aren't by a long shot.