behind closed doors....

DCHoney_0629 wrote:

P o e t i q R e i g n wrote:

i'm starting to believe that too many brotha's find it waaaaaaaay too easy to call a female a "B*tch" when they're **** @ her.....even from the people i'd least expect it.... Qua....thas my buddy, no doubt....but he know i definitely wasn't feelin' him callin' the female he's feelin' a b*tch....when she wasn't cooperating about them hookin' up...& made the comment about him not being able 2 come see her or whateva.... my friend Jason...was REALLY...REALLY feelin' some chick @ his school...i mean, dude sounded like he was in LOVE...& kept talkin' about approachin' her about his feelings & whatnot....that was, i SWEAR, like TWO WEEKS ago......& now....she a "crazy b*tch" . . . ......& when i ask him, "aiight, Jason...tell me...how is she crazy?"...he can't give me a legit response....but even if he COULD...i'm like DAMN...u were JUST feelin' the ISH outta her (or so u SAID)...how could u possibly call her a "b*tch" now?!? & then 1FocusedBruh..the "never trust a big **** & a smile" thread.....that's what inspired this, lol... i'm starting to believe ALL DUDES call females "b*tches" behind closed doors..... dudes....is this a regular thing for ya'll? i mean, when u get with ya boys or female friends - even when u ain't upset - do u call us that??? i mean, dag....i'm just curious.... & ladies....is this a frequent thing among your male friends...or no? & while we're on the reference of "b*tch"....a friend of mine told me that a white male friend of his told him somethin' like, "i hate to tell u this, but when Black people aren't around...we (White people) all call ya'll the N word" i was like daaaaaaaaag....like u always hear Black folkz sayin', "man, i bet White folks call us 'n*ggers' all the time behind our backs!"....but to actually have a White person ADMIT it...& MEAN it.......lol i don't know - that's just a trip 2 me...

I have something to add... I don't know about all guys, but the ones that I am around the most call females in general b*tches if they aren't of high school age. I sit back sometimes and listen to my boyfriend talk to his friends....some saying things about their girls like "man this b*tch be gettin on my nerves", "man I'm tired of that b*tch", " man this b*tch" or on occasion I might even hear one of their girlfriends being called a b*tch out in public. The thing is why call her a b*tch if she is your girl. I understand if some women are out right just evil, but most of these women are nice, carry themselves well, and have self-respect. Another thing that has me and my boyfriend arguing on occasion is the fact that any woman to them can be called a b*tch. Women on TV, women that he knows, women who sing on the radio,ect.He will be singing a song that I like but then when it comes down to the part when they are talkin about the female, he replaces words like this: From Sierra's Goodies "Slow down little one" --- he repalces it with this " slow down you lil' b*tch. He even calls me a b*tch when he gets mad at me (really mad), even though I'm not one and many can attest to that.

demmeri wrote:

Da_Rodfather wrote:

If females can say Men are Dogs why cant we say a female is a B*tch.... ****its the equivilent

he right tho, **** 8-)

Sed_Ated wrote:

DCHoney_0629 wrote:

P o e t i q R e i g n wrote:

i'm starting to believe that too many brotha's find it waaaaaaaay too easy to call a female a "B*tch" when they're **** @ her.....even from the people i'd least expect it.... Qua....thas my buddy, no doubt....but he know i definitely wasn't feelin' him callin' the female he's feelin' a b*tch....when she wasn't cooperating about them hookin' up...& made the comment about him not being able 2 come see her or whateva.... my friend Jason...was REALLY...REALLY feelin' some chick @ his school...i mean, dude sounded like he was in LOVE...& kept talkin' about approachin' her about his feelings & whatnot....that was, i SWEAR, like TWO WEEKS ago......& now....she a "crazy b*tch" . . . ......& when i ask him, "aiight, Jason...tell me...how is she crazy?"...he can't give me a legit response....but even if he COULD...i'm like DAMN...u were JUST feelin' the ISH outta her (or so u SAID)...how could u possibly call her a "b*tch" now?!? & then 1FocusedBruh..the "never trust a big **** & a smile" thread.....that's what inspired this, lol... i'm starting to believe ALL DUDES call females "b*tches" behind closed doors..... dudes....is this a regular thing for ya'll? i mean, when u get with ya boys or female friends - even when u ain't upset - do u call us that??? i mean, dag....i'm just curious.... & ladies....is this a frequent thing among your male friends...or no? & while we're on the reference of "b*tch"....a friend of mine told me that a white male friend of his told him somethin' like, "i hate to tell u this, but when Black people aren't around...we (White people) all call ya'll the N word" i was like daaaaaaaaag....like u always hear Black folkz sayin', "man, i bet White folks call us 'n*ggers' all the time behind our backs!"....but to actually have a White person ADMIT it...& MEAN it.......lol i don't know - that's just a trip 2 me...

I have something to add... I don't know about all guys, but the ones that I am around the most call females in general b*tches if they aren't of high school age. I sit back sometimes and listen to my boyfriend talk to his friends....some saying things about their girls like "man this b*tch be gettin on my nerves", "man I'm tired of that b*tch", " man this b*tch" or on occasion I might even hear one of their girlfriends being called a b*tch out in public. The thing is why call her a b*tch if she is your girl. I understand if some women are out right just evil, but most of these women are nice, carry themselves well, and have self-respect. Another thing that has me and my boyfriend arguing on occasion is the fact that any woman to them can be called a b*tch. Women on TV, women that he knows, women who sing on the radio,ect.He will be singing a song that I like but then when it comes down to the part when they are talkin about the female, he replaces words like this: From Sierra's Goodies "Slow down little one" --- he repalces it with this " slow down you lil' b*tch. He even calls me a b*tch when he gets mad at me (really mad), even though I'm not one and many can attest to that.